Been seeing a girl exclusively since new years and i have been playing her quite cold recently she rings me every day and she is the one who always initiates contact. She got upset about this recently because one day she didn't ring me and i never rung her and she was upset that we didn't speak for a day and that i never call. Any way a couple of weeks ago we went out and i got drunk and i kept going out side for fags she got really pissed off because i was not with her etc. We got into an argument and i left her and went to a party. She text me the next day saying "I wish we would stop arguing when we go out its getting unbearable. call me when you want to talk. going to sleep soon x" I didn't reply then i got this message then next day "could you tell me why your ignoring me?" followed an hour later by this "I'm really sorry if I upset you it wasn't my intention. I know I can be difficult at times. I do suffer from depression and it affects my mood. I realise all this arguing is damaging and it's something I need to work on. You know how much I love you and it's breaking my heart not talking to you. Please call me so we can work this out. Love ... xxx"

I rung her and we sorted it out. We arranged to go on a tripple date this weekend and i notified her two days before saying i wanted to watch the boxing so would be out a bit late but was still coming she wasn't happy at all but said it was ok. I got there after the boxing and she was really drunk she said she wanted to see if i would watch the boxing or come meet her blah blah blah. she was in a horrible mood with me, later in the night she tried to chat up my friend to piss me off for like 20mins i ignored her and just chatted to her friend i then said "your trying to make me jealous" to which she denied in a joking way. I then went back to hers in the taxi which is rather far from me and she just said you can't come in and paid for the taxi fair to which i had to pay extra to get back home. I just asked her if she was kidding and she just went inside. I then get a text from her today saying "i know i'm making you unhappy. We need to talk x"

Advice guys i want to keep this girl and i know i obviously need to show her more attention but don't want to fall into any traps. I didn't call her today i just couldn't i was to angry and thought i might make it worse if i did. But need to sort this out quickly so advice asap please.

Thanks