You are right, because if she had me hooked 100% i would definitely want to stay with her.

Okay guys so i was honest with her and myself..letting her know i wasn't ready to be fully committed. We talked and talked. It actually went better than i thought.

So she tells me she is fine with having an open relationship. In fact she said she thought it would bring us closer together. I thought this was cool because i didnt want to lose her, but at the same time i am not ready to FULLY commit. This makes it good, for both. She is still happy because she has me in her life, and im happy because i get to continue picking up chicks and all. I think i will be ready to commit eventually but not just yet. She was soooooo happy we came to a compromise, she took me out to dinner at a expensive restaurant and then to the movies. Im not bragging or anything just thought it was pretty cool. So im glad we worked everything out. She is going to singapore for 10 days she leaves on thursday. She was crying when i left to go home. She was in my car talking and literally ran back into the house covering her face so i wouldnt see her crying. I must admit i was pretty upset too. I may ride out to her place since she stays about 25 miles from me and shoot fireworks with her for the 4th of july.

Anyway thanks guys who all responded to this thread, helping me out. Let me know what you guys think!