Ok so I was obsessed with this girl and a total pushover with her, and she totally took advantage. Would show up late for dates, sometimes re-sched etc etc. I kept putting up with it because she was in medicine and in her last year of residency. Finally on the last date she flaked last minute and my friends forced me to break up with her for my own sake. Anyways, I finally gave her the talk and she acted all cool about it and said she agrees a break is best. Then two weeks later she asks me how I am doing, trying to act all nice. I act very laid back and don't bother to ask how she is doing. Two weeks later she wants to see me. Told her this week is not possible, maybe next week. Now again, texts me asking if I want to grab a drink 'anytime'. I said next two weeks am traveling so maybe when I am back in June. She says ok well if you are free then and have an interest give me a shout. I didn't say anything.

Basically I turned this situation totally around by dumping her first, but the thing I realize is I am quite pissed off at her SPAM of me during the last month we went out. In fact I will say I hate her for it now. Also since her I met way better chicks so she doesn't appeal to me much at all. Just wondering if I should just meet her in my alpha state now just to see if I can fuck her or show her and myself how much I am past that afc chump she was mistreating. Also I think the hatred I feel for her is unhealthy.

nothing wrong with meeting her to try get your end away but be careful, you say you hate her but hate and love are very close, watch you dont accidentely fall for her again, she only treat you like that the first time because you let her, it was just as much your fault as hers

Wait.. so this girl wants to be friendly/challenge you so you play hard GOOD JOB! However what you're saying now is just completely insecure, "now just to see if I can fuck her or show her and myself how much I am past that afc chump she was mistreating". Dude what the hell! You should be thanking her for making you the guy you are today, life is a journey, without the path we travelled we wouldn't get to where we are.

You feel hatred for a girl because you didn't man up and do the right thing? Get a grip, as a PUA you need to learn to love women, this girl didn't work out as a relationship. Too bad. I bet she has the ability to be a good friend or good fuck, you don't need to manipulate or mistreat women just because you were unsuccessful with them.

Anyway drop the attitudes man, I can really see in your posts trying to say that you "were" this you did "this". However in your posts I see an rAFC, if Mack 2.0 was here he would agree with me. You need to take a break and stop blaming women for your failures, anyway to me it seems like you are still a bit insecure and want validation.

TLDR; This girl is interested in you, either meet with her or delete her number. It's that simple.

I agree that hating her is not productive. It's more like she is a mirror and she is reflecting the afc self that keeps coming out when I fall for a chick.

I guess I should say I hate the fact that I let her turn me into that weakling or turned myself.

All I am saying also is I don't think I can meet her without it reminding me of what a chump I became with her. Whether we could be more than we were if I had been a stronger man, I don't know. Met a girl after her who dumped my ass last week, so I guess I still got some more improvement to do on myself.

What do those girls tell you when they break-up with you? Define your AFC behavior... are you putting up with her disrespect such as flaking or not carring much or AFC as in buying her flowers, bad sex not being a REAL alpha male?

There are always reasons for break-ups and you say: " I still got some more improvement to do on myself." but please tell us what you are referring to.

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Just move on, don't talk to her, no matter how 'Alpha' you feel right now, to go and meet up with her to show this is in itself a 'Beta' move...a rich man doesn't have to tell people he's rich.

Winchester nailed.

Move on...

Im kinda skeptical if you are so alpha has you told. Arent your afc past want to crawl back for this girl?

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Dude i totally admit I still have a lot of work to do. I'm acting alpha now to this particular ex but do i fall back into my afc self with a new chick when i am really into her...no doubt