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What was not in your time, let it be.
If those texts and pictures were from before you met, she shouldn't bother about it. BUt think about it, if you were in her shoes, you'd be in the same way. BEcause your mind plays tricks on you, you start to wonder and imagine things that are not real. I've been there.
Don't put a lock on your phone, this only lets out a message that you're hiding something, specially, when you didn't have one to start with, if my GF put a code on her phone all of the sudden, then I would think something fishy is going on.
As other guys have stated, just let her be sure that you're only with her. I don't know how much time you guys been together, it doesn't seem long, but with time.. trust is built, sometimes it takes a lot of time. Sometimes a girl doesn't trust you because she has done bad things in the past, or has actually been hurt.
True trust, and confidence comes with time, patience, and work from both people.
I wouldn't go to the extremes as to dumping her, but I would just make her feel sure about the relationship.
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