For the love of god dont do either of these things, if you do i promise you wont get back with her, and even if you somehow manage it then it wont last very long

Yes you thread jacked go make your own thread


Anyways to the OP Dessesum you posted about this same situation a while ago.

Lets face it she's going to to continue flirting with other guy's like she has been and you're going to continue to sit there take it I don't even know why you're still asking for advice.

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Thanks everyone for your replies, heres the update.
She has told me she sees me more calm, because I had specified that was the only thing I Didnt liked about her.
I asked her how she felt and she said she doesnt feel any different, because for her its the same not messaging him than messaging, she doesnt care.
To be honest, I have been calmer, she has told me that she really cares about this relationship, she doesnt want to mess it up like she has done in the past. I just dont want to be like her ex boyfriend, that never showed any kind of jealousy or stuff like that, and have her think that I dont truly care for her.
I know she wants to be with me, everyone has said she looks happier than ever with me, and she says and I say to myself "why would she risk that?" ... She knows I have my options: shes even seen them ask me out through messages... So this week has been pretty calm, ever since the incident...
I will try to act more secure, not get freaky psycho jealous, but also to show her my interest. I do care about ts girl, snd she has said I am the best shes ever had. As of now, we both want to do things right. So I'll just let things flow.
As to why she does it... I dont know, I used to do it, when I hwas with my ex.. Set up dates with girls and then cancel.. The only difference is that I asked the girls out. I would feel terrible if she would be the one asking them out.
Im more confortable now, hence I feel more confident.