My G/f we are at Long distance relantionship in some months we will start a normal relantioship without the distance. Going back to my town.

Now the real problem she used to call me alot. and would spend countless hours on phone. She would call me on smoke breaks and shit, yes needy. She would complain that I wouldnt give her more attention and she would be always the one initiate.

Nowadays she doesnt call me much or txt that much. When she calls very brief and always when she is going to bed to sleep I dont mind but this change of behavior doesnt sound good. She calls me love and all that shit, but still!

To at this point it didnt affected me, im give her the same SPAM.

But im staying couple of days in her city not necessarily because of her but have some bussines to take care of. She then apologizes to me cause on that date her friend from france comebacks so she is going to her town for 3 days but then she will comeback I found that odd.

What do you guys think?

Out of sight, out of mind. Long distance relationships rarely work out man.

It doesn't affect you? She's the needy one?

@sparrow ty for such a wonderfull insight post. Like it didnt figure that one out.

@mcare It doesnt affect me if a girl only talks to me one minute per week what bother me is change of behavior. Easy if you are fucking your girlfriend and all of suddenly she doesnt want sex ok maybe its temporary but if it on the long run is going to affect you.

Yeah I know all ppl who write here are alphas and dont care.

Lol chill dude. Honestly it seems like she's getting over you. Might be time to move on and find another girl. I know that sucks, I've been in long term serious relationships and had them flop, but you get over it, and theres always another awesome girl out there. And if you dont end it youll both just end up unhappy anyway.

Lol chill dude. Honestly it seems like she's getting over you. Might be time to move on and find another girl. I know that sucks, I've been in long term serious relationships and had them flop, but you get over it, and theres always another awesome girl out there. And if you dont end it youll both just end up unhappy anyway.