Hey guys,

So i got my ass dumped by a freak girl 2 weeks ago. Long story short, i was biggest AFC ever and she had all control. My conclusion she got bored and needs a new MAN?

Relationship started great, my name was on her SPAM, twitter, facebook and even on her phone with neon lights or something. Then after month and a half my name disappeared and so did the long texts and attention towards me.

I did fail all shit tests, was to available, bad sex ( not alpha at all ), paid for everything, gave all my dignity away for that oh so good body of hers!

So yeah after a month and half or so she lost interest pretty clearly and she even said it wasn't going to work and she did not know what to say. i begged like a little bitch to give me another chance and we kept it going for almost 3 months, last month or so was a real pain for both of us as we both knew it would not last so i got a text saying its over and have a good life.

After that i never contacted her again and she deleted me off face book which i am fine with. I don't really care about the break-up as i was only in it for giving her a chance off having a good guy who got his shit together instead of the badboys she was with in her past but very good lessons learned no matter how innocent they look and act a freak will be a freak and eat your fucking heart out!

Ok so here is the info about the freak:

- 17 years old. I am 20.
- 23 exes. She was my first.
- bad childhood( raped )
- No hobbies, poor family, low life, smokes, very naif.
- Said she loved me, wanted to be with me forever and all that shit in time we were dating. I believed it haha!
- 400 guy friends on facebook and like 10 girlfriends, needs as much attention as possible, sexy pics and shit.
- Cammed with guys and meet up when we were together, she was also still active on dating site.
- no real friends ( i know for a fact because of her bad character )
- Selfish, never gave me blowjobs although i went down on her)

QUESTION:

Is it possible to have a good relationship with a freak like this or is it just not ment to be until she is in her mid 20's where she wants to settle down and have kids.

How would you have to act when you start dating a freak and want to keep her for a long period of time, perhaps life.

I am not asking WHY you want a freak when there good girls out there but i feel like it was all me that fucked this up and if i was a real alpha male it would off lasted so much longer i think! Although 23 exes, at least one should off been alpha.

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As in all things.. it depends. She is clearly unsuitable for a long-term serious, monogamous relationship. However, she'd probably have made a really good FB if she had been handled properly.

Upon meeting a freak, follow Turabao's FB rules (link: http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... rules.html ). If you like drama (I don't), then you can consider upgrading her after awhile if she's earned it. Even so, don't expect monogamy from her unless you enforce it by playing the role of the over-protective, controlling boyfriend (not my cup of tea).

-Wolf

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Thx bro, that link was useful! I also think it's impossible to have a long term relationship with a freak and especially the one i had as she protects herself from guys who are very protective and controlling, only reason i got her to date me was because i was a total AFC.

I now met this really good girl with high self esteem and things are just going great. However i still want to date a freak one more time just to see if i can apply all the things i have learned here.

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Damn, if Wolfwoodd comments on a thread it makes it really hard to add anything

I also dated a girl like this before we were in a realtionship for 4 months. HB9.5, 22yo bisexual. What I learnt that I shoulnd't have went for a realtionship because that was all about drama and her making up shit tests. I should have been just fucking her every once in a while.

Not every girl is capable of a LTR. Just as not every girl makes a good fuck buddy (they become too needy and fall in love).

Some girls are simply unable to be long term GFs, some girls are simply unable to become fuck buddies.

Not everything is black and white tho.

To answer your question, she is capable of having a good relationship but this is most likely not a monogamous one. I don't think its the type of relationship you are looking for now.

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