this girl came to a party i thru last friday we talked for a few minutes nothing significant got her number today should i invite her to a bbq we are having this weekend or bring one of my regular girls?

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dont chase, replace

One-on-one date first my friend.

You have no rapport with this chick yet. Unless she'll know other people at the bbq chances are she'd decline the invite anyway... besides you don't want to spend your day/night babysitting some chick who knows no one there but you. Bring one the regulars who is comfortable around your friends and have a good time.

hey,sorry for saying my problem in here
i can't create a new topic

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first of all i want to thanks member of forum cuz i had my best month until now
back to 4 month ago i meted a girl online
i did a lot of tech on her and she dump her bf ...
they wasn't actually that close and in different cities
(i asked for help to win her)
but after that i didn't show her enough atetntion ...she was like begging me all the time to love her
....
actually i really like her but i didn't show that
now she want's to be alone and makes excuses:like you deserv better than me...
but i want to be with her.
she gaved me some stuff but for taking them back sent her friend (
she's scared to see me againand go back to the old emotions
i said i will give the stuff to her(my gf )

now if i see her wat should i do?

being not romantic won't solve anything cuz i was like that all the time.
personally i think a little change is really need(not like obama said )

what you think?