It's not about throwing them away as soon as they make a mistake. An afc would supplicate, be her little bitch, marry her and settle for less for the rest of his life. Now you as a pua know better and are continuously learning. When she makes a mistake, you can try to turn it around and stand firm without breaking your principles. You gotta be the man through out the whole relationship and if its gonna work then she has to respect that and grow with you and share your lives.

You already recognized your mistakes in the past month and you did try to make it work but I guess she was too scared to make the jump and show affection. At least you know now how to act in a relationship. You can take what you learned from this to make you a better person for the rest of your life so be thankful for that.

I also don't want to get detached as I'm getting into PUA and I don't want to develop a hate for women like some have due to their experiences, but all you can do is keep improving, being fair and reach your ambitions. You have a higher chance of finding the right girl to share your life with then most people (afcs) so try to think positive from now on. Don't dwell on the past, look forward to a better future and a better you.

Yeah fair points, Sly_Wolf. I just don't know if I'm stuck on this girl because i fucked up with her and I'm mentally trying to fix my mistakes or i am still really into her. I have to admit, the taking a break thing was not because I wanted to stop seeing her, it was to try to get her to realize that I wasn't gonna take her shit anymore and try to regain some power in the relationship. For now she's called my bluff and sounded like she was fine with taking a break. Either that shows she doesn't give a fuck and never did or she was trying to hide her reaction like she always does.

I know even obsessing about it now is a big mistake because it's not gonna help anything. If I contact her, then she will have all the power again and even less respect for me, or worse, she could say I don't want this and end up dumping me. I just don't think I want out of that situation. Even as I hook up with other girls (have two this weekend), i still can't get past this feeling this whole thing is a big mistake. I know it's a pretty fresh thing right now, but yeah besides trying to learn from this experience, just don't know if I should be treating this past mistake as done and buried or just on hold while I get myself sorted for now.

Trust your gut feeling in this situation, it's what I would do mate.

Hope it gets better.

Problem is my gut is giving mixed signals. I broke up with her last week, or said let's take a break while you focus on your studies, but not sure if that was the right thing to do. I listened to people who know me and saw me getting obsessed with this girl and said you have to get out because she's taking you for granted. Now i'm seeing other chicks but can't say i'm super excited about meetin anyone else right now. even hooked up with another chick this weekend, and still mostly think about this one. I realize that is because it's still early, but not sure if i did or am doing the right thing. Ideally she will call me and want to reconcile and put in more effort. Otherwise right now i see no scenario where me contacting her will do any good. At least not for a while.

sleep with 9 other women, you will feel better

Haha. Ok well 7 more to go after this weekend