The chase is a game, it's "he who cares least wins". This is a whole new question, in a relationship, how you get your girlfriend completely obsessed and thinking about you non stop

Mind control

_________________
Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Go On

If you want a relationship to wotk then don't bring the game into it but you still need to keep the PUA skills in you and that means don't be jealous, don't get needy and more importantly don't overthink the relationship. If you play a game in relationship it will NEVER last so i suggest you just let it be.

There are thousands of ways that make women love their bfs and it mainly relies on the way they treat them, the better you treat them the more comfortable they will be with you but to do that you'll spend so much time with them and you will develop feelings for them. So my point is when it comes to a relationship it will always be a two way thing. Don't expect her to be mad about you if you are not mad about her!

I'm really sorry mate but that is just not how it works... :L

If you're all over your girlfriend, if you're mad about her and you always show it, she's gunna wonder why you're so clingy and needy.

Girls want a challenge, a guy who's less available, who has a lot of female friends, who has other things going on in his life other than her.

Come on mate this is basics. ;)

No i totally agree with you buddy and that's why i said to him you need to be careful from coming across as a needy perosn but my point is that the more time you spend with a girl, the quicker they will fall for you but if you do that you'll end developing strong feelings for them. you musta misunderstood me

sounds nuts lol

Basically I think it all boils down to this...

The person who cares least in a relationship, has the full control

But at what point does the relationship last when it is like this

While I agre on this for most of the part, I don't think its the whole reason. Girls want the challenge when youre "picking them up" but once it goes into a formal relationship, everyone, both us and them seek stability, or at least most of them.
I think the point is balancing things, of course you dont want to erase all your female friends, but let her know you have them... talk about them, etc..
I think it all depends on who the girl is, there are girls who give themselves fully to their partner, and these are the ones that go in a serious LTR relationship, others that keep partying with theirfriends as if they had no BF, and see each other once a while.
At least from my LTR experience, it is this way.
As to having the less interest in the relationship... sure, it sounds easy.. but lets face it, once you start developing feelings for a girl, not caring doesn't come easy.

Simple question: Why the fuck would you even want a girl to be obsessed with you?

This is not a good situation to be in, honestly...

What happened to healthy relationship?!

_________________
Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Don't call her much, when she calls you, plan something really fun. Keep it positive and leave on a positive note. You also gotta be cool, calm, and collective while in charge. Use descriptive or emotional language when talking to her. Pass all her shit tests with flying colours because you are the prize and absolutely nothing she does phases you in a bad way.

Reward good behaviour and punish bad. There's a thread in this section on how to do that. If you're banging her, make her cum a lot. Try to create some mystique about yourself as well. She should be chasing you. Keep leading, make every interaction positive and keep yourself busy cause you won't be going after her, she will be obsessed with you.

Adding mystery with some DHV stories may help as well. They will start building this amazing character in their minds as if they are lucky to be with such an amazing person and they will do whatever it takes to make them happy.

PS. Wanting a girl to be obsessed with you just means you're still insecure and there's a chance it will show so you might not be able to pull off all the above unless you work on your inner game. Once that's fixed, it wont be even worth it anymore cause it's not healthy and you'll be stronger person.

I agree with this guy completely! The only reason you want her to be obseesed with you because you have underlying issues like maybe a girl has hurt you in the past or you are insecure about something! Believe it or not getting a girl obsessed with you does not solve this and will not satisfy you. Furthermore, if you take the whole concept the person who cares the least holds the most power and take it too far you begin to lose attraction for the girl becuase your constantly telling yourself to care less. Having a girl obsessed with you isn't fun it involves a lot of crying and arguments , just remember women aren't toys to receive your own gratification. I'm telling you this because i have been in the exact same position myself and have learned the best way to have a relationship is to be yourself but you have to discover the alpha inside yourself first!

good advice from the last post