I believe this girl is not worth it anymore. This is disrespectful and if this is true(still haven't asked her, not really sure if I care to) I will never live with myself for keeping up with this relationship. She just reminded me of my bad boy self...

She shoplifted a month ago, she doesn't have a good relationship with her father, apparently was taken advantage of when black out drunk and says this is how she lost her virginity.

I found myself in this situation with my second relationship I had. I had just started college at a university and I was dating this girl for a couple months, and one of her friends messaged me that she was with some guy downtown and hooking up with him. I was a little bothered by it at first, and although I trusted her, it's still a shock to your system when you're not prepared for something of that magnitude.

I handled it by just talking to her about it straight up. I know she wouldn't lie to me and I felt I could trust her. She told me the truth, that she had met a guy downtown and they danced, but they never escalated past that. I expressed my concerns in an appropriate manner and I told her about the message I had received. I left the names out, but she figured it out within seconds.

I was a little worried for the next couple weeks, but eventually it blew over and I stayed with her for more than 2 years afterwards. The true moral of the story is, if you're willing to have a committed relationship, you have to be able to express your concerns (in an appropriate manner) to her. Some girls will lie and continue their escapades, but if she truly has feelings for you, she'll listen to you and she will make an honest effort to respect your feelings. All in all, you'll be able to tell real quick what's going on based on her actions following the talk.

Just a little advice, when confronting her, after she opens up, never demand her to not do this or that. Just tell her how it makes you feel. Show that you trust her judgement in situations and she'll always respond positively. She'll be more likely to sneak around if you tell her not to. For example, if I tell you not to picture a pink elephant in your head, you'll picture it almost right away.