Wow she just got kind of ''pissed'' at me..

We talked about what we were gonna do today and i said i was going to play twister with shots tonight and after that monopoly and shit (like i said above) and after 20 min she responded with like

''look you are getting pissed if i am talking with another dude and then the next day you talk to me about it about ''that guy'' but it's fine when you meet up with 5 girls and go drink.. Well you should have fun but then you shouldn't whine about me talking to guys either''

I told her that her flirting with guys didn't bother me at all and that we were just joking about it (this is true, we were just joking) and i said that next time i won't joke about it then.

(She flirted with a guy 3 meter away from me, her hand on his chest his hand on her hip etc.) i said: ''If i had a problem with it i would have said it when you were standing next to me, it doesn't mather to me''

And i said that i have known those girls for more than a year and that they are just friends..

Then she talked about a guy in the past who liked her and tried to held her hand and massage her and shit (while she was already my girlfriend) and said ''ye he was also my friend'' ...

I told her that she shouldn't worry about tonight because im with her and shit and she said ''ye but with alcohol i dont wanna know what you're going to do'' and again i said that she shouldn't worry and stuff and she said ''ok ill do my best''

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Stop with the damn drama, tell her to come over, and fuck her. If she refuses to come over, then cut your losses, because you've lost her.

She's probably already cheating on you, and accusing you first because she has a guilty conscious. I've seen this so many times. A girl that is love with you and thinks you are cheating will bend space and time to be by your side. A girl that doesn't care will cause drama.

She knows damn well that your female friends actually only consider you a friend, and that her male friends want to fuck her. She's acting coy if she tells you otherwise.

I would fuck your girlfriend, Just because of how fucking beta you are. I would do
It because I hate you. Regardless of how she looked. This is a pua forum
Not a place for you to give us a fucking play by play of your shitty life.

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I don't f*ck fatties

reread what i suggested, especially in the 1st post. reread what others suggested.

but never admit that you are ignoring her. don't be effected by her shit tests. be a man.

you seriously need to fuck this girl. if you don't fuck her, than she's gone. if you cannot fuck her for any reason, dump her ass. but you need to fuck her no matter what.

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"You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take."
Wayne Gretzky

We went out for dinner thursday with my family, afterwards she came back to my home and i tried to fuck her but she stopped me and told me she was ''tired''.

At this point i was fed up with it and said the relationship was over (not in a mad way, just a normal calm way). She said she didn't want it to be over and then she told me about her insecurities

She said she is very insecure about her body and that's why she's been acting like this (not wanting to fuck etc.) and that we shouldn't break up because of this and that she's gonna work on it and promised me that ''next time'' we will fuck (sounds weird to me but anyway, maybe she forgot to shave )

Anyway, after some thinking i said ''okay'' and told her that we can't continue like this and something needs to change, she said okay.

Not sure if i handled this the right way? Maybe i should have just dumped her and be done with it?

I tried to set up to meet today but she said she can't because her parents were mad that she got home late after our dinner and she isn't allowed to do anything and has to study..

She could honestly be insecure, but waiting a week won't make her any less insecure. You could have, and should have done her right then.

Last time I stopped myself like that, I was about to put my hand down the pants of a religious virgin girl in my car. She said "I don't think you want to go down there" and I just assumed she was insecure and unshaven. The next week she started making excuses about meeting up with me, so I moved on.

Girls will use anything as an excuse when they are even the slightest bit nervous about having sex. If she isn't getting up and leaving, its bullshit. Think of it as a test, or her proclaiming "I'm not turned on enough yet." Whatever you need to tell yourself to realize she really wants you to take all responsibility.

"I'm insecure about my body" you respond "I've never felt more confident with you"
"I'm unshaven" you respond "you're turning me on so much I can't control myself"
"I'm on my period" you respond "yummy"

If she isn't getting up and leaving, it's all token resistance, or a shit test if you want to think of it that way.

I didn't talk to her for a day and was minding my own business and today she asked if i could meet her tomorrow, i told her i was busy and she should have said it sooner

then she said she was doubting and maybe wanted to break up but wanted to talk to me about it and if i can make time for her 30 mins or something

so tomorrow im meeting her

Alright this maybe long but I'm going to try and shorten it so ask me questions if need be. I'm sorta new to this stuff but I've read alot of this stuff and I've starting to internalize the pick up stuff but I'm a disaster at relationships I've got alot of problems I can see my self making hence this post is kinda playing damage control. So I've been freezing out my girlfriend four going on now three days because she has been "losing interest" in me. If our past is important ask I will iterate,anyway I am freezing her out because I've noticed she has started waiting for me to text her first and she almost never sends me messages with cute things any more its almost always short answers ( losing interest). Now I've been really busy this week but now I have nothing for the rest of the week so I will probably be tempted to text her tomorrow.. We have known each other for four years and we have been dating a month.. Advice haha? Im down for anything. I typed this on my phone so typos happen