Guys, I'm really frustrated and confused. I've been with a lot of girls and haven't had issues like this before. We have always had amazing sex where she's screaming, etc. However, she recently started telling me stuff about the dynamics of our sex life that makes it more and more confusing. First, she told me she wanted it rougher. So I roughed her up and she was amazed and turned on by that. But recently she told me I've been frustrating her a lot cuz she can't have an orgasm after having sex. But if I try to go down on her before I bang her, she'll sometimes just cut it off early. I feel like I'm missing something obvious or major here.

I'm confused.. why not just go down on her afterwards?

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
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Yeah yo. That's my confusion too. She says it's nearly impossible for her to cum after having sex, so unless there is some fucking quantum physics shit I'm not aware of with her, my only option is before I bang her.

Ahhh.. so she doesn't orgasm during sex OR after sex? Okay, weird.

Have you tried using sex toys during / after sex?

I like toys for the variety and use them fairly often: vibrating rings, vibrating anal plugs, hitachi wand + G-spot attachment, etc.

It might help her post-sex "frustrations".

-Wolf

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Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

yup. not during, nor after. says it's near impossible after. i've started to even think I need to read up on what I'm doing wrong, but yeah, thought this was weird. Thanks for the info - have never used toys.

Tell her to rub her clit when yall are having sex. And keep giving it to her rough. Or ask Richard Pryor, he will tell you to lick her asshole.