We broke up a couple months ago, after a year because I felt neglected and in return was a douche bag. She dumped me. Anyway we texted a little. We met up, I was very composed, she was surprised. She is still in love with me I saw it in her eyes. Relationship talk caused her to cry bad. I told her I messed up but learned a lot, especially about keeping pride and your ego out of your relationship and want to give it another try...

She started crying, I'm pretty sure she is scared to get feelings for me. I want her to know It will be different. She stayed over for a while, we kissed and I could tell she really wanted to do more. She wouldn't allow herself to though.

Talked on the phone the next day. She sounded completely emotionless, like a zombie.

Talked a couple days later. Made lunch plans, she never called, or replied to my text.

I tell myself she is afraid because her feelings rushed back when we met. I want to be there for her. she is having a rough time.

I'm kinda lost. She is far to proud to call me to talk about the problems in her life.

I know, move on, fuck her, etc.
That's not the route I want to take.

I find jealousy is the best way to get an ex back in your situation. You've made it clear that you still love her, but she is holding back on you! So let her friend tell her that she saw you with a beautiful girl, or better yet acidentally on purpose let her see for herself. Afterwards let it be known that its her you really want, but if she doesn't want you then you will live your life!

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Only those who risk going too far, can possibly find out how far they can actually go!

it would be in vain. It would just show her I'm not serious about her. guaranteed backfire. Its the same for her. She has guys hitting on her on FB and she wont even show them the time of day where I can see it. She doesn't want me to have a reason to move on either.

She denies another guy being in the picture. I don't know if i believe it....

Yeah, jealousy seemed to work for me even though it sounds bad, started seeing someone else and she noticed and wanted me back but then i realised its kinda like a kid playing with a toy, they won't want to play with it until it's taken away, and when it is, they want that toy more than ever!

Jealousy will not work here. I took a great girl for granted and lost her trust. That would push her so far in the opposite direction.

If anyone reading this happens to land a real keeper of a girlfriend, don't let your ego mess it up. there is nothing wrong with being a good guy. Not being a bitch doesn't mean being an asshole.

AGREED!

Do not make her feel jealous. She has deep down feelings for you that will ignite. Go out of your way and sweep her off her feet!

Go!

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Law of Attraction

Not trying to be a puss, but I am afraid of looking like a total chump. What if she's seeing another dude? What if she honestly doesn't give a shit and that's why she was blowing me off? What if she calls me a creep and says she never wants to see me again? Or trys to get a restraining order?