Having nearly finished the book. Practical-Female-Psychology-for-the-Practical-Man
It lists different types of woman and what to look out for. It basically says there are three types of woman, materialists (aka gold digging traits), good girls and adventuress girls. It's strange having after reading this I noticed so many things that my cheating ex did/said etc... I would probably recommend reading the book:

http://www.scribd.com/doc/28849140/Prac ... ctical-Man

Anyway, having read this It kinda makes out that you need to be searching for a balanced girl with parts of the traits.

It also says don't go for girls with low self esteem. My cheating ex had llow self esteem and could not accept that someone wanted her to be in a committed monogamous relationship. She did not say this much at the time apart from that I was too good for her, and it wasn't until after I she cheated on me that I found out she lied, she didn't think she was good enough, she had trust issues :/ ... even though she cheated, and also that she self harmed. It says in this book as well that girls with LSE are prone to cheating because of this.

I get the feeling that I like girls with low self esteem.... don't know why :/ kinda like looking after them to a degree. Is there anything wrong with that?

I've kinda narrowed it down, don't know how right this is to say... but the type of girl that I should be finding.

High sex drive
highish self esteem
one with a bit of experience
good girl: 50%
adventuress: 30%
materialistic 20%

It says all about screening. Now I was wondering if any other guys do this and how much success they have on finding a potential partner?

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I will also add.

This book says that in order to keep a woman in a relationship.

Stay mentally strong, don't give in to her emotions.
Don't open up to her when she wants you to just give a cocky response.
Just trust her
And let other girls flirt with you and be around you to keep her knowing that you are fucking wanted by other girls.

Thing is with this, I get the feeling that the girl may get paranoid and cheat on you just because there are other girls after you. I don't know. Maybe you need a girl with high self esteem. But seems like total manipulation, do you really want that in a relationship?

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Recently I've been trying to screen a bit more ruthlessly as I came out of a relationship with an uber drama queen. Couldn't hack her emotional shite anymore!

I've pretty much got my list of red flags and if a girl triggers one I'll pretty much just next her. Though this can be tough as sometimes I really like them.

Some big red flags for me are;

1 Low self esteem
2 Recent break up (within 6 months)
3 Psycho ex boyfriend
4 My ex is my best mate
5 Daddy issues

Basically I'm looking for a girl who is completely emotionally unattached from her ex and someone who is comfortable and confident in themselves. Essentially someone like me.

It seems to me like most girls have serious issues though, and pretty much every girl has a red flag.... especially uni girls who im dating at the moment, I've seen everything and heard everything.

Maybe it's meant to be like finding a needle in a hey stack!

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So is a girl with low self esteem a total red flag?

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just re-bringing this subject up ? It's more of an in-depth one a bit beyond seduction IMO.

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