Been with this girl for 8 months now.

We basically act like a couple but recently we've been having some problems. I told her we should take some space and she agreed. After which she continues to ask me to hang out to which I oblige sometimes. We hang out and she never wants me to leave but sometimes I do anyway.

She asks me yesterday if I want to come over today and I tell her ill think about it, i end up saying okay so we make plans. She texts me an hour later saying she feels bad for her friend who broke up with her bf 2 months ago and cancels on me.

I basically call her out for asking me out then retracting the offer. She gets mad back, calls me a child and calls me selfish. Says we wanted to take time apart so this is what that is.

She loves me and we get along great but she can't seem to make up her mind.

I'm running out of ideas and having a really hard time reading this girl....help

freeze her , game other chicks and ignore her for a while

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“The only reason to wait a month for sex is if she's 17 years, 11 months old.”-Barney Stinson

Agree with the above comment

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

agreed. in 2-3 weeks you will see exactly what she wants if you stick to it

I don't think she is calling you childish for no reason. Are you telling the whole story?

Dude are you really gonna let this chick control your behavior with subjective criticisms such as "childish" and "selfish". Shes trying to play the victim role to put you in the wrong. I would never let that shit slide if a girl flaked on me after strictly making plans with me. You need to tell her that if she flakes on you again then your done with her. Dont put up with bitch behavior yo.

Exactly. If you have the upper hand in this relationship as you present it, why does the cancel bother you so much? Did you ask for space because she couldn't make up her ming before that or is it just recently?

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Getting mad at her was AFC of me i know, i asked for space because i want her to make up her mind with what she wants from me

In that case you need to soft next her but not ever get mad or pout about it. Just remove your attention, she'll come for you if there is something there. These things can be very frustrating, but there's only one thing you can do. Good luck!

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.