There must be countless different viewpoints on this. Most of the relationships I approach begin with us getting together, then after that comes the usual 1st,2nd,3rd,4th,and home bases. However, some people approach it differently and prefer to have already scored with a female prior to getting together. I thought this would make for a thoughtful discussion, so my question is this:

How do you approach intimacy in a relationship?
There is no right or wrong answer.

Sex 1st relationship later.

That's the whole point of and guys wanting to have a girlfriend in the 1st place they're tired of using their hand and watching internet porn. I don't want to be a friends with minimal to no benefits having to listen to her whine about things I don't really care about or spend money and time on her on her then start calling my girlfriend when i'm not getting what i want.

After I've had sex with a girl I'm fine with listening her gripe about those things i don't really care about and spending time and money on her and relationship is much easier to pursue after im getting what i want

Any guy who says they just want a girlfriend so they can talk to her about common interest and life is Lying they know they just want fuck. And any guy who plays by an woman rules for withholding sex til she's in love is weak. If they want to play that sanctified holy route they'll Next'd asap

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Ok, I will tell you how I got with each of my serious boyfriends;

1st one = met him at a club and clicked straight away. We kissed that night and he got my number. We hung out and got to know each other for a month before sleeping together.

2nd one = we were friends for a year before we started casually seeing each other. Kissed on third date and discovered we were in the friend zone. Continued being friends for another 6 months until one night things got crazy and we slept together - ended up in a relationship for 4 years after that

3rd one = we were friends for 6 months as I was in a relationship and he wasn't. One night, things got crazy and we kissed. Two days later, we slept together and after a week, he was calling me his girlfriend.

There you go!!!

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