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We've been together for 5 months but sexual activity is recent, like 2 months. She's inexperienced, it's not adventurous sex, it's just whatever. She's new to this kind of stuff, she thought she'd never lose her virginity to a boyfriend. It doesn't take a week, that was exaggerated...more like 2 days. Whenever I masturbate on my own, after ejaculation I feel disgusted at myself but I know it's not only because of ejaculation because I lose attraction after sexual activity with her even if I don't ejaculate.
Well it's normal to feel turned off after ejaculating. But to feel turned off for two days after having sex with your gf? Even if you don't ejaculate?? Maybe something about her consciously or subconsciously is unattractive to you. Relationship strain could also be a factor. Have the two of you been arguing about anything? Have you been stressed lately? How long has this problem been going on?