My girlfriend has some problems and can't take the pill and needs to go to a lot of doctors to research her and all kinds of complicated stuff.

She went to the doctor today again and said she needs to go to a specialist and she said:

''I guess you are thinking now: ''I can get 100 other girls without all these problems''

Is this a shit test or?

(It's on text message)

Sounds like solid shit test territory to me. Ways I might respond:

"If you really think that's what's going through my head, surely you're thinking 'I can get 100 other guys who are deeper'"

"Are you thinking: I can get 100 other guys without [pick bad self attribute here]?"

"Do you think your medical problems define you in my eyes?"

The point is that I would take it as an insult for her to so callously assume that I would be so shallow as to minimize the whole relationship because of some medical problems.

Just off the top of my head. But as previous poster said, tread lightly. You have the best perspective on how some of these things might pan out.

--Aeron

Thanks guys!

I replied with a bit of both:

''I hope you don't think about me like that, but i am only concerned about you and hope that you will get better soon, i don't care about others. '

She said ''ah that's so nice you are so sweet''

I said: ''I really hope you don't think about me like that haha, or are you thinking ''I can get 100 other guys without [Talked about some personal issue i have]?"

"Why would I want 100 other girls? Imagine how crowded it would be at dinner, and I the shower would never be free. No I think you are stucck with me."

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Awesome. Best response..

If u dont mind me asking, why cant she take the pill? What r u doing 4 birth control? Pulling out?

lol if my gf said that I would have responded,

"100 other girls? I can find about a million other chicks with out your issues... But I don't want one of them.. Just you "

Then I would have asked for a BJ.

After some tests it turned out that she can't take any birth control with hormones or she can get seriously ill..

Using condoms, hate those things....

Haha yea that's for sure, funnily enough i had a dream that i had a daughter with her last night ... But she said she's gonna make a appointment to get a spiral? (Spiraal).

She said that she doesn't trusts condoms enough as for safety so she wants to get it (i didn't mention it once). So i can't complain