I have not had sex with her yet, she still has not been fingered. First sexual act we had was a few weeks ago and I went down on her and played with her, she didn't cum even when I played with her pussy the way she wanted me too and then again today, we did the same thing but she didn't cum...I eat her out really good so I'm a bit confused, this is frustrating. She masturbates and she has orgasms every time when she plays with herself alone so she's not the problem, I am.


Any tips?

Some girls have a problem with coming which is in their heads. They might need longer with a partner, but are not used to receiving pleasure, so they feel pressured to come and it creates a mental block. If she doesn't cum in a time frame that seems acceptable for her, she feels like she's demanding too much work and this creates even more pressure and again she can't. So try to reassure her there is no pressure, that you enjoy giving her pleasure even if she doesn't come. Don't give up easily and don't let her stop you. If she says she can't come, tell her it doesn't matter, you like to give oral and you'd like to continue. It's good she tells you how she likes it, so just communicate with her during the act and try to find what gets her there. Make sure she is relaxed and she knows you're enjoying the experience, no matter if she cums or not.
Maybe it would be useful for her to get used to coming in your presence. So tell her to play with her self with you there while you just kiss or you finger her. Or you can even masturbate together while you're kissing, the point is just to get used to coming in each other's company.
Most of all, don't let you're frustration show, if she senses it, it will get you back to square one.
Don't give up, you'll get there. Practice makes perfect!

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Comfort is key when making a girl cum, like Txacoli said it's all in their heads make her sexually comfortable around you then you will find things 100% easier and she will reach maximum pleasure. Talk dirty talk about how much her body turns you on and what you want to do to her, bite her ear kiss her neck look up on this fourm about how to touch a woman and speak to them. You do this and you'll make her explode

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