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| suarez203 | PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2012 6:11 pm | |
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Location: London | | my new girl bf was a douche bag! he was so nasty to her and gave her nothing for christmas and treated her like dirt!
he has now left the country and me and her have been getting together...
this girls seriously soo hot!! and he has completely lowered her self esteem and i am a footballer and i take her out and treat her like a princess and so nice to her... and then she says " i just need to take things slow im not used to someone being this nice to me..."
Help how do i get around this? she tells everyone how much she likes me?
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| hey_lover | PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2012 6:15 pm | |
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Posts: 70 | | There's a reason why she was with that selfish douche bag in the first place. Don't treat her completely like a princess. I think it was Mack who said that the ratio for your general behaviour should be 75% as a bad boy and 25% as a sweet boy. I think it's healthy to do something selfish at least once a week, not very selfish, but something that shows her that you aren't rolling out the red carpet.
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| Stylite | PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2012 6:25 pm | |
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Location: New York | | Yeah, don't be Mr. Romeo.
In other words, don't be the guy that girls say they want! Make sure you're still the man. There's no doubt that her boyfriend was probably a big douche to her but you need to be a man too. Show her that she needs to work for your attention, don't just mercilessly romance her.
Girls want a guy who's bad but they think they can change. My buddy who's a natural "bad boy" (totally a huge asshole to women) is dating a perfect 10 and has been for years. That's because when she met him, he was a huge dick that just wanted sex and used women, and as she was dating him and he knew he wanted to keep her around he started doing nice things little by little so she actually felt like "wow, it's working, I'm turning this guy into a great man!"
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| suarez203 | PostPosted: Tue Jan 24, 2012 6:58 pm | |
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Location: London | | yeah ill try this out.. im genrally a nice guy though to be honest and that is how i managed to attract her in the first place when she did have a bf and now there over... she just isnt used to being treated nice...
ive stopped replying straight away to her and making her work for my attention.
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