Hi guys,

When you are in a relationship, how often do you need to contact your GF, when you're not living together?

I know this is a very subjective question and is variable but I'm just interested.

Who should be driving the interactions? Do you just sit back and wait for them to contact you mostly - assuming the attitude of "not giving a shit"?

Is that a rock solid attitude to have in any case? I guess it is... but how long does it take to obtain that.. especially when I'm not getting much in the way of success with women? (Read that as.. I'm not going out as much as I should)

Thanks guys

Zan

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"The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step"

- Lao-tzu, The Way of Lao-tzu
Chinese philosopher (604 BC - 531 BC)

The less often you contact them, the better.

The more they take the initiative and contact you, the better.

95% of them time, my girl sends me a txt during the day before I txt her. I then wait AT LEAST 20 minutes before answering her.

It's not an attitude of "I don't give a shit", it's more like "I'm a busy man. I'm working and doing shit. I don't have time to be sending txt's."

If you see she's taking the initiative and contacting you first, then there's no need to be an asshole to her.

"95% of them time, my girl sends me a txt during the day before I txt her. "

I dont agree, with this attitude may be good in the beginning but it will dry her up very fast.

So if you have something interesting to tell her. Send her a txt. Sometimes you have to be romantic, . Always having a I dont give a shit. will end up alone and crying in alley.

So variation is the key.


Yeah I agree with Pryor in aat least 20minutes. Show her you have better thins to do.
Busy guy ,is a interesting guy.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Show her you have better thins to do


Meh. Better things to do than respond to your girlfriend? Comon guys, this is your significant other, treat her the way you expect to be treated..

It's not that hard. Mutual respect. Do you like it when she has better things to do.....besides you?????

Yes??

When im with my g/f, IM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND.

She doesnt come first I did that mistake.

When I have girls who make me there world I ussually run away and think "oh shit" ITS FUCKING BORING... you know what same thing happen to girls.

Besides my biggest crush, was a girl who was interesting and took long time responding to me. And put her objectives in first place.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Actually, yes, I do.

Making your woman your #1 priority is the best way to make her lose interest in you. If you're at work, doing shit, studying, whatever, there's no reason why you should respond to your woman within 5 minutes.

But, if you wait 20 mins before answering her 1st txt, and she responds within 5 minutes, then you can answer her 2nd txt within 5 minutes.
Actually, I do. I hate needy women. I lose interest immediately if a woman is all over me and doesn't give me space. I like women who keep things a challenge, and make me have to be on top of my game.
Not sure what you mean by dry her up. My woman is crazy about me. In bed, I'm the king, and she drips every time she's with me. I need to change the sheets after every session.

And 95% may have been pushing it. It's more like 80-85%.
Oh, I agree. If I have something interesting to tell her, then I txt her first. But in my case, being busy at work, I hardly have anything interesting to tell her. I'm busy making money.

If you're in College, things might be different.
Yes, it will. That's why I said it wasn't an IDGAS mentality you should assume, but an "I'm a busy man" mentality.

i'm not talking about having other things to do in general. Separate interests and the like are key for a successful relationship. I mean making someone wait purposely for you to reply. That shit would get old quickly for me, and I'd soon start to wonder if maybe you weren't interested in anything I had to say. I'm not saying that you have to jump all over every conversational tidbit she tosses your way, oh no. All i mean is that its rude and condescending to make your sig other wait a set amount of time before you can be bothered to text her back. If you are at work or school or are genuinely busy that is perfectly fine, but if you arent, then theres no good reason to make her wait.

Let me start by saying that calling your woman your significant other makes you look like a fucking pussy. I can already tell just by that that you are an AFC/Beta bitch. Be a man.
Yes there is... to make her believe you have better things to do than to answer her txts within 2 minutes of her sending you txts.

And, dude, it's not like you have to start a timer when you receive a txt and reply exactly 20 minutes later. Sometime you can reply right away. Sometimes you make her wait an hour. Sometimes you simply don't reply.

Keeps things interesting. Make her wonder. Don't be an open book. Otherwise, your significant other will get tired of you and will want to start fucking other men.

Most importantly, fuck her like a man. Make her suck your dick (ideally, she would want to suck your dick). Tell her she's a whore. Lick her asshole. Slip a finger up her ass. Fuck her up the ass if she's into it. If she's not, make her be into it.

Grab her by the hair when you're fucking her from behind and tell her that her pussy belongs to you. Make her say it. After you've told her a couple of times that her pussy belongs to you (by a couple of times I mean on separate days... you shouldn't tell her that her pussy belongs to you more than once a week, max twice/week*) randomly ask her who her pussy belongs to. Once she says "yours, baby" make her repeat it "I can't hear you". "Yours, baby, yours!"... "that's right"


Spank her ass. Most of the times, the spanking should be medium in strength. On few occasions (once a month/month and a half) give her one HARD spank... hard enough that she screams OUCH! You fucker! That hurt!. Then you caress her butt and tell her "I know baby. Shhh. It's all good now"

LMFAO!



I'm female...just sayin.