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that's not enough information to even offer an opinion on whether its good or bad. We don't know what she did, or what she was like, or why you did it.
And in any case, those terms are relative. Good according to whom? Bad by what standard? The only person whose judgment in THAT area is relevant to you is your own. If you want to straighten out you head and get your mixed feelings sorted out, then you have to process your memories, discover for yourself whats good or bad in the past, and project into the future what things would have been like.
Obviously, there were problems that were significant enough to cause you to break up with her. How miserable would you be in a year if you were still dealing with those problems, and they kept getting worse and worse because you didn't do anything to stop them? How much worse would it be in 5 years? What if you spent your ENTIRE life under that kind of duress?
You have your whole future ahead of you now, to forge in whatever way you choose. You can spend it moping about the choices you made, or you can learn from your mistakes and do better in your future.
Its all up to you.
kay listen buddy ill give you a little idea of everything
We went out for 5 months.. I rlly loved her and shes still in love thats 100% sure
But thing is I have trust issues..
If you saw the movie > Raging Bull < well I feel exactly like him
I just cant trust her so I decide to break up so my pain will end up
even if I still like her
soo I broke up face to face I did it rlly well
she cried alot and txted me alot after that
but now shes trying to make me jealous and its rlly pissin me off
(btw we dont talk to each other anymore)
should I try to make her jealous or something?
thanks for the help btw
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