Met this chick at my gym. She's a PT. HB9. 33y/o.

I went on a date with her, then on a second date, went back to my place (after I K-closed her) and she told me "I'm not gonna sleep with you. If I didn't like you so much, maybe I'd sleep with you, haha... j/k".

Next week we went on a date, went to my place after. We fucked like rabbits. She said "I haven't done this in a looong time. How about you, how often do you do this". I told her I didn't want to know anything about her past, and offered her the number of a great shrink I know in case she wanted to talk to someone. She told me later she didn't like this so much.

Next day I fucked her even better. She started giving me this fantastic BJ for about 10 minutes. Told me she wanted to hear some feedback. I told her it was great. Asked her to try to deep throat it as much as she could, and she tried her best but told me she was small. My dick was rock hard solid.

I fucked her like an animal. Spoke dirty to her while I banged her. We did 69, I licked her asshole, she loved it. My dirty talk was working it's magic again. She said she wanted it from behind.

This was the best part. This chick has an amazing lower body. I banged her like a champ, spanked her ass a couple of times, fingered her ass a little, kept banging her hard, opening up her legs with mine, until she was screaming super loud. I'm sure my neighbors heard me. I'm sure she came again, at least once more. I didn't come.

"I felt like I was being punished!" she told me later. 9.5/10 performance.

Couple of days later we talk on the phone and she tells me next time we see each other she wants to tell me something. About a week later (no sex during that time) she tells me she has genital herpes.

I told her she should've told me before we had sex, and she definitely agreed, but told me honestly that since it's not a big deal for her, she honestly forgot. She's had it for 10+ years.

She confessed she was pretty sexually active when she was younger. She used to be homeless for a while, did drugs (not heroin nor crack) almost got married when she was 22, but then ran away because she couldn't take it an moved to another state, with her ex-bf.

I told her that if this wasn't going anywhere, then it wasn't worth it for me. She said, "well, I honestly don't know where this is going. Do you? Listen, the thing is, every time I see you, you make me very nervous, and I feel like I'm not in control. And I can't be not in control, for things I won't discuss now with you."

She said she didn't want to talk right now about being exclusive.

We then started to make out, grabbing each other, etc. She then says "I really want to suck your dick right now." I said ok.

She got down to business... choking, gagging, I grabbed her neck and hair and told her some dirty talk. She loved it. Tears came out of her eyes.

Then we had sex (unprotected). She told me she wanted it rough. I said no problem. Gave it to her rough, and she was WET as in I've never seen something like that. She came twice, fluids coming out of the vagina. She then wanted me to come on her face, but Mr. Wimpy Called it a night, so it couldn't be done. I had a lot of shit in my head.

Couple of days later we went to my place. I went down on her like a mad man. Sucking/licking/sniffing combo. Licking the ass, etc. She was going insane. After I've been down there for 10 minutes she says:

"Don't want you to freak out or anything, but I've had girls go down on me, but you are even better." The ultimate compliment?

We did it from behind, and then I started with my dirty talk/spank butt magic combo. I told her that her pussy was all mine and no one else's. I grabbed her hair and told her again "That pussy is mine, you hear me?" She's like "all yours, baby, all yours."

Then she went on top of me, and that's when she came. When she did, she almost passed out. She was exhausted. Remained laying down for 5 minutes, telling me that was insane.

We've been together 4 times, and I still haven't had an orgasm. That's how it's done, kids.

Right now I'm not sure where I stand. She said she honestly didn't know if she wanted to be exclusive, but then I fucked her two more times after that and boy were they good fucks.

She always sends txts during the day ("Trying to take a nap, but i keep thinking how much nicer it would be if u were here. Not that I would get much rest"... Sends pictures of her dog, etc). I always wait 30mins-1hour before I answer, she answers within 5 mins. I don't call during the week. She gives me free PT sessions at the gym.

Am I in charge here guys? Anything I should be doing differently after she told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to be exclusive? Like I said, I fucked her real nice twice after that and told her that her pussy was all mine, and made her say it.

"All yours, baby, all yours.

^Tundra^

If you are OK with an STD...then by all means...go ahead.

Understand what you are getting yourself into...just because the girl is hot or sexually talented...doesn't mean it's worth it! You can and most likely will be limiting your future options if you do get something from her. Not everyone will take this lightly...some may not even choose to associate themselves with you.
Your call here!

Im not really sure (aside from the STD) what the problem is...sounds like things are good. If she isnt walking all over you...don't put too much thought into something that isn't broken...go with it.

Be careful bro...once you get it...you can't get rid of it!

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

Bro..... what the hell??? STD... seriously!!! You are taking burning love to whole new level. Once you have it, its all yours.

But aside from that, if your happy and you dont mind the itch then there is not really a problem. But dont let this chick blind you with her talents! There are hundreds of thousends of women that are equally talented.

Problem I see here is she telling me she didn't know if she wanted to be exclusive.
Was that Alpha of me... saying that? I was drunk at the time, and she told me after she didn't think that was nice.
What are your thoughts on the "you make me nervous... I'm not in control" comment?
Alpha?
So, anything I should do differently? Like pay less attention? Treat her like my fuck buddy? My goal is to make her beg me to be exclusive. She sends sweet txt's, though, and her actions are saying she wants to be exclusive... and I think as long as I keep fucking her the way I am, there's no need for her to be looking elsewhere.