Backstory: me and ex breakup a while ago. No communication or contact for over three months..last week out of the blue, I get a text from her. She wants to meet up and fuck. I kept it short, and didn't make contact till the night we hook up.

We meet, and it is awkward.. after talking, and her telling me about this guy she is talking to, and things with that guy, I finally cut to the chase, and we start getting it on. Everyything was good. After it was over, she kept thanking me saying it was good.

I take her home and we're having a real good connection. Still kissing and everything. She jokes & says that she needs to stay away from me, but she'll be home in 2 weeks again.

Since that night, we haven't talked..Idk to think if it was a one and done deal, or if we might continue to fuck? In 2 weeks, Idk if I should text her to say something to initiate us meeting up to fool around..I just don't want to seem needy or like she would expect a text.

I just don't like initiating effort..everytime in the past she has..

What do you Alpha's think..?

the part that caught my attention

was when you said she went right into talking about "some guy"

which was obviously a ploy on her part

there is no doubt she wanted sex, or you two wouldn't have nailed

but

the question is, what else is she up to?

cuz

she clearly wanted some sort of reaction from you (test) by mentioning "other guy"

i'd say keep it simple, let her initiate basically all contact

cuz

she still has some sort of emotional attachment going on due to the test she threw out at you

and we all know that emotional girls are highly logical and predictable animals

don't start chasing her

what i'm saying is: she might be looking MORE for emotional validation than for actuals sex

not sure how you feel about being an emotional tampon, just be wary

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lol she's highly emotional and instinctive..

woman ARE will fuck anyone anytime... they are unpredictable in timing but predictable in their behaviours .. they cannot rationalize what they do AT ALL... msot of the times they do not know what they are doing and why.

clearly a fuck out of self interest .. she is using you

i have seen woman fucknig unfamilair guys in like 5 minutes .. i have seen the strangest shit from woman - some woman have the sexual fantasies of getting raped and other stuff....and among them are married woman , older woman and moms of my previous girlflriends

she talked about this other guy

it's probably just a guy who got a bit needy in the relationship.. maybe he is a chode or maybe he has some difficulties in his life right now. anyone he shot himself in the foot with a uzi and now she looked around trying to fuck other guys..

i meet these kind of woman all the time and they want me to tell them they are having a relationship with a loser and tell them to shut the fuck up. These woman touch my knee in class , they fucking talk to me about sex and that kind of shit.

it's purely a emotional and instinctive/ biological thing... don't put any value on it

if a woman is fucknig you that fast it's a instinctive fuck...

woman are fun to be around

aside from that

woman are idiotic, disgusting , immoral and very predictable
DONT PUT ANY VALUE ON A WOMAN WHATSOEVER.... not on your girlfriend or anyone... she is not fucking human .. she is 50 % woman, and 50 % animal.

maybe 1 out of 100.000 girls is humans and enlightened.. the chances of you meeting that woman is 0.001 %... simple equasion.. put 0.001 % value on her.

it's ok to fuck woman .. it;s ok to fuck all woman.. it completely ok... but do realize that she is using or manipulating you because all woman have emotional needs. Sometimes they just need sex to get some self esteem or some emotions , sometimes they are insecure and they want to get fucked in order to get confirmation.

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All of these are awesome responses! And it was funny, after we were done, she asked "do you think im a slut"? I shut her up quick and said you women and your validation crap.
I want to hook up again, but trust me no strings attached..I know her plan I just want a quickie..but how do I get her to initiate again..

You say "no strings" but I have a sneaky suspicion that you have attached "strings" before writing this thread. You need to be honest with yourself, not me, if you have feelings for the girl. Back off, the ex-girlfriend bang can be a slippery slope that will lead to being hurt again or getting back into the relationship. If you start initiating and comforting her, you will fall. And if it's strickly about sex, go find another girl.