Ex gf and I broke up in June. The breakup was fake, I know she wants me back but is ignoring me.

(after our breakup we were texting a little, and i had made a comment about missing her being around. and she said i will get her back, and shed let me know when. I had lost my job previious to that, and had serious financial issues...it was chaotic! There are many other things to add, but im keeping this to the point)

she would text me then ignore me for weeks. have not heard from her in 3 weeks now. Due to many other issues, i havent been online in a long time. was going to delete my facebook months ago, which she knew that for starters.

Anyway. in the process of figuring out how/if/what to do/say to her, i got on FB and she deleted me, but her cousin whom lives with her sent me a friends request. Her cousin has no reason to send me a friends request....i mean i know her, but it was just kinda strange. I know its so my ex can see my page or whatever it might be.

So, I made a new fb today...still working on the "about me' part. should i send her cousin a message saying i have a different fb? I want my ex back, or at least some closure. i know its not over....just a LONG game shes playing on me. my last text from her was askinng about if i got my truck back yet...and my own place yet (back to the financial problems) and i said not yet but im working on it. shes like "hell hurry the hell up!'

that was the last text session with her, and now seeing she deleted me...? I dont know why? i know she wants me to chase her, but everyone says dont...she will come to me when shes tired of the game.

so how do i build my new fb, and what do i say to her cousin. granted most of you will say nothing to her because its childish what shes doing, but please any advice will be great. I was thinking of saying "hey...i got your request, but i have a new fb...heres the link. I see Jess delelted me....hmm, well tell her I said hey!" or leave her out of the message?

Add the cousin, but leave out the message. Don't talk or ask about your ex. Don't even say anything to the cousin. Block the cousin from your newsfeed and NEVER look at her profile. That is very important that you do not look at her profile, because you don't want to see anything on there about your ex that might upset you. She is playing a game and part of that will be to do things to make you jealous. You do not want to get pulled into that game.

If you really want her back, then the best way to do that is to MOVE ON! Especially if she wants you back. Women want a strong man, and if you are sitting around waiting for her to come back, then you aren't being a strong man. She has the power, and you keep giving her more by playing her game.

Start going out with your friends whenever possible. Bring a camera with you and take a bunch of pictures of you out having fun and with other girls. Show her that you are not sitting around sulking, and that you are moving on with your life. She will begin to feel a fear of loss, because you are moving on and don't need her anymore.

If she contacts you with anymore small talk, i.e. asks about your truck, then ask her not to contact you. Tell her you both need space right now and ask her to respect your space.

If she contacts you and says she wants to see you, be cool about it. Wait several hours before responding, and then tell her you are very busy and maybe you'll have time to meet with her another day.

Work on you in the meantime. Get your financial situation handled. Get a car, get your own place. The most important thing that guys forget to do after a break up is to take care of themselves and what they need. They are so busy worrying about their ex, that they forget about themselves. The only thing you can control is you. The more you work on yourself and improve yourself, the better your chances will be at getting her back.

Read all the material you can on inner game. Work on being strong and confident. Build an attractive and exciting lifestyle. Experience new things. Talk to new women. Live your life.

why would girls play this game when she had me already....? why does she want to make me jealous...etc? why delete me when she knows it will hurt me? so many damn questions!!!! lol

Woman don't think logic, so trying to figure it out logically will fail you.
Moving on is the only thing to do in my opinion.

Why the hell would you want to get back with a girl who is playing games on you? You must not go out that much... because by the sounds of it... pussy is limited for you.

My advice: Find a new chick.

It's definitely her using her cousin's account to keep tabs on you.

I don't know if you're texting the girl still, but this worked for me and so I suggest it to you: take her name in your phone and change it to November 8th. That's one month from now. Every time you look at her name, you will be reminded not to talk to her in 30 days. Now, if November 8th gets here and you still want to talk to her, you've earned it. But trust me: you won't want to.

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