well i met this girl about 7 months ago shes a beautiful girl and ireally like her but latley weve been having problems to much we have now been dating for 6 months in on and off mainly due to me because igot jelouse a lot of time becuase of some afcs which makes me dumb because ididnt not knw how to handle the situations.. back then me and her were perfect or so it seemed we laughed and we enjoied each others company but now it feels like everytime i see her it goes alright and we just end up having a problem by the end of the night. i think all these problems are getting old and annoying and thus making her and i both lose intrest in the realationship not wanting to be with each other at the moment shes mad becuase i lied to her about how many sex partners i had in the past and im dumb for not being honest at first but now i just feel like i dont want to handle with this bs and i know she dosnt either were going no where fast. and i just want to know how i can make it better what can i do to build the attraction back to not have so many problems enjoy her company and just not lose intrest in here please help

Well, I had trouble reading your post, but you should at least stop arguing with her. Just concentrate on having a good time with her, you want her to have a fun time. If she has fun with you, she'll get more attracted, and you're not going to get there when you're fighting with her and acting jealous.

I had just responded to a similar question and scrolled down and saw this. Please don't be insulted if I paste my response to him and add on..

It sounds like you may be experiencing (posted) {what I call the "sandtrap" stage. Almost every LTR faces this from around the 6th month to a year in. It's where the "newness" and excitement of the relationship starts to wear off and all those little nitpick things that you have ignored up until now come out full blown. All those annoying traits about her (or you) are no longer cute and fun and lead to blow ups and arguments. That could be the reason you are arguing more, she is feeling insecure, and you are feeling frustrated. Honestly, I have never discovered, or read about a cure other than to plow through it. If you want to stay in this relationship keep plowing through this phase until things get better. Or you get so fed up you end the relationship. It can be a great insight into who she REALLY is.}

So I feel like I'm cheating by re-posting this but it sounds almost identical to your situation. RIGHT NOW is the time to decide if the "new" her is worth your efforts and come to a realization that you may never be able to get back to the initial fun relationship. IF you decide it is worth the risk then break out of the funk. Introduce some new fun things, some adventure. And spend the extra attention on her to break out of the phase. Good luck brother!