Hey guys,

So I have been sort of seeing this person lately. She wanted us to be exclusive which I wanted too and therefore agreed. However, after a while I asked her to be my girlfriend and she is like I need more time yet wants to remain exclusive.

At the same time she doesn't understand how I am "sure" about us and I am not really sure what she means. I mean I enjoy her company and etc and therefore think she is worth my effort. Advice on what she is thinking and what i should do?

I would rather not be emotionally invested if she is not into it.


She seems into it by the way. Stays up late worried when I am working late and tries to talk to me every day at least by phone or etc. Might just be trickery.


Thanks

Dude, I was in this exact same situation 2 weeks ago, with this girl I'm currently seeing

When I tried to make the move, to make our relationship a relationship, she didn't want it, so I felt really bad, because I really liked this girl, and I thought I blew it, but it turns out I didn't

I froze her out for a couple of days, then when I started talking to her again, SHE actually made the move, to take our relationship to the next level

You just need, to be alpha, if you want her to be your girlfriend, suggest things which point towards her being your gilfriend, keep flirting A LOT, even though you are together, and you'll get her

Hope this helps,

Peace,

Troyden

okay thanks. so should i freeze her out? like not talk to her for a few days?

Freeze her out, for about three days, but reply to some of her texts, make you are unreactive, to what she is saying, but try not to make it look like you are in a mood, when she calls you, answer ONLY a couple of times, but only give short answers, when you let it ring, and she asks why you didn't answer, just tell her you were busy

Then when the three days are up, just get really flirty with her, and suggest things towards her being your girlfriend

If it doesn't work, find a new girl, but remain friends with her, but this worked for me

Hope this helps,

Peace,

Troyden

agreed.

when you do pick up that call or reply to the txt, you have to act as if you can take it or leave it all. act un-affected. make out youv been busy, you still are busy and plans to keep busy. (fun stuff)

its always good to slip in a girls name, theyl pick up on this before you have time to finish the name wich will spark abit of jeliousy, this can show there's other women out there that enjoy your company ect and you have other options....

mind games unfortunatly pal, but it works. hope this helps.