I hooked up with a girl I went to high school with - I used the "I had a crush on u" routine... and she was in my bed the next night/morning... ( she works thirds...)

However... since then we have been texting a lot... which I hate! And I can't figure out how to get her out on a date w/o looking needy...

I already tried Styles "Sushi" routine on her, but she wasn't interested... I want to get in her pants again, but I may just be wasting my time and should move on to other girls while keeping her on the side as a back up...

What do you guys think?

Lovecraft

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How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being. - Oscar Wilde

Next time she texts, text her back asking her out. Be specific--have a date and something in mind to do.

If she hesitates or says no without countering, tell her "ok, tx", delete her number, and ignore any future texts. You're not fucking her again, at least beyond the odd chance she gets drunk one night and needs a last minute booty call.

If she says yes, problem solved.

If she txts, just don't txt her back... and the next day or day after that, txt her: "i'm taking you out for drinks, be ready"

Like the other guys said, just text her saying we are doing this, and lay out a specific date plan. Maybe preface it by saying, "Hey what are you doing (insert specific day or two)?" And like stated before, you don't have to answer all her texts or answer them all immediately. You are a busy guy with options, you probably don't have time to be her #1 text buddy all the time. You can also escalate sexually through text to make her hot and ready to see you.

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Making definitive future dates is a great thing to do.

After the replies to this post went up a couple of weeks ago I first tried texting her and asking of she had to work Sat... She replied "no but I have plans..." So I dropped it and cut of the texting...

Fast forward to one week later... I know she has Fri off, so I just text "Chris D's for drinks tonite... u n me..." and she text back "What time?"

So I met her at the bar... though I did arrive first... and we came back to my place and I tried the Mystery "You look like you wanna kiss me" routine... but she balked... so I rode it out... kinda froze her out a bit then asked if she wanted to kiss me and from there we did the deed... Which makes twice now that we've hooked up... first from fb a month ago, and now this... and then on the second round I got LMR and fell for it and let her leave without really shagging her proper... but she said she had to get home to kids... I should have made her stay... but I wussed out...

So... what is the next move? And I asked this before... Should I tell her upfront that I'm not looking for anything serious... I just want to have her as a FB for now... Or bring her onboard as a girlfriend and tell her I'm seeing others, or cheat on her behind her back... Which she told me her ex did... so she would probably put up with it either way... what do you think? Bring on the advice guys... =)

Lovecraft...

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How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being. - Oscar Wilde

Good! You were assertive and you lead! You said, this is what we are doing, and it worked!
Sounds like there is a disconnect somewhere. If you've gone further with this girl in the past but are encountering this amount of hesitation then there is something wrong. Maybe it is what you are or are not doing, maybe it's something else going on in her life, whatever the case, it's not on. I hope you are continuing to sarge so you can meet girls who it will be on with. The more you work the numbers the less each girl ultimately matters because you give yourself more chances to meet girls who are better for you.
You are a high value alpha male, you have options, you are the prize, you are a man among boys, you do not need to settle and do not need to deceive. Why would you ever lie to a girl in any way if you are that guy? You should tell every girl exactly what you want and don't want. If any particular girl is not down for what you want, then that's fine, she just isn't what you are looking for.

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