Short background on my girl. Shes been in a lot more relationships than I have been in. Her last relationship prior to ours where she actually used the words " boyfriend" " I love u" was 3 years ago. Her x killed himself. And I think she partially blames herself.

Now we are together have been for about 10 months now. We've had our up and downs. One of the biggest issues is her sex drive.

After first we waited for a month before we had sex. Then we had a lot of it. It slowed down as I started to make the moves for it. We had a break up for a month and got back together and had great sex for the weeks proceeding the reunion. Now it is gone again.

I know if I make moves for it she gets a lot of anxiety and pushes me away. It is very rare that I can make a move for it and she will be in the mood. ( most of the time I am trying to get sex is at night before bed or in the morning before work ).

I am well hung, and when we have sex I make her scream. I mean our sex is fucking great, best I have ever had. And she says its the best she has ever had.

Am I doing something wrong here? Am I asking for it too much? Am I not being dominate enough? Do i not know when my girl is in the mood and I am making moves at the wrong time? Shouldn't she feel obliged to be in the mood to satisfy her man?

When I do start making moves and she stops me because she is not in the mood she gets very angry. Its not a soft sweet " hunny I am not in the mood" its " Rich! Stop"

I use to get upset and would get defensive. now I say " I'm sorry darling I didn't know you weren't in the mood, but now I know I will stop. "

I don't know what to do... I feel like I am missing something that arouses her sexually.

Although she claims that she has never been very sexual with any of her boyfriends, and can go with out it for long periods of time.

Any thoughts? Thank you gentlemen