This all happened over about 5 months.
I moved to a new town and a girl added me on FB through a mutual friend. We started chatting.
i got to town , we started texting every day. She eventually came out to an event i was doing and we hung out. It was clear there was a strong attraction there.
I then had to leave town for a week. We were texting more and when i got back we bumped heads again and i asked her out. She said yes.
I then had to leave the country due to a medical emergency and i text saying i couldnt make it. We mailed a couple times and when i got back i bumped into her in a bar. I found out she though thought i was lying about it n tried to get out of the date.
A few nights later we started texting and i ended up giong over and staying the night. no sex just kissing, groping and we woke up in each others arms and there was obviously a really strong connection there.

We carried on texting. she was saying that next time she wanted more. I text her something a bit too sexual an i think she went a bit quiet, then it went wierd. At this point i think she sensed i might be just after quick sex.

She text saying she wanted to see me right now. I said i cant im out of town.

I got back to town, she was putting more in by this stage because she thought she pissed me off. We ended up finally going on another date. We were hanging out like bf/gf, holding hands through the whole date, hugging, kissing etc. She went home, we text a bit but never really said how we feel.

She text me a few times drunk saying she didnt want me to leave and please dont leave. But sober she was always guarded and sometimes bitchy.

So in the end i text saying im not here for long, we obviously like each other , i want to see her. She text back saying she was hesitant because im leaving. We text a bit more an she said she knew i had things i wanted to do an didnt want to stand in the way of them. She said she was used to assholes n didnt really know how to handle someone being nice to her. That discussion finished.

She would text me and i eventually left contact a whole week and then i text her saying I cant text you anymore, i understand how she feels but its too hard for me to keep texting. Good luck and i know she will do really well.
But she just text back "Same, goodbye" And that was it. We never spoke again.

She was obviously pissed off or wouldn't have text back something so short. Maybe because i broke it off or hadnt been in touch. I thought she would respect that.


I really like this girl. I never gave her much. We push pulled and eventually we both couldnt handle it anymore. Am i best leaving it now until i come back to town?

All the game stuff goes out the window sometimes. I followed the rules of attraction here but me not expressing my feelings, not once, may have harmed her putting her trust in me.
I know there is still a strong connection there. I want to give myself the best chance to picking up when i come back to town. should ii contact her now, or wait?

It's a bit unclear what the big problem was between the two of you--either you travel a lot or you don't live in the same town or you're just not really ready to commit? But regardless, you made the decision to break up with her.
What did you expect? There was nothing wrong with the reply she gave you--it's a pretty cool-headed one, at that. She wasn't disrespecting your decision by playing her game well.

Only you can answer why you chose to call things off. So the real question is, do you stand by those reasons or is there some reason to think things would be different when you came back to town? And if you know deep down that you aren't ready for whatever reason to have the type of relationship it sounds like she wants, then I'd say leave her alone. Good luck.