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| Dr. Spargenator | PostPosted: Mon Aug 01, 2011 12:32 pm | |
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Location: dallas TX | | hey guys. so i have a new girlfriend and the day before yesterday we got into a fight because she texted me while i was at work and i got in trouble because of it. i appologized later for yelling at her and she said that it was ok and she still felt the sme way about me. the next day she texted me saying "hey..." she put dots cuz she was scared to text me cuz she didnt know if i was at work. anyway we got to talkin and she said her sisters were making her upset and she wanted me to make her feel better. and i stoped replying cuz i didnt want to deal with it. and later that day i texted her saying hey and she didnt reply.then i said "ur mad cuz i had to go when you needed me earlyer today arent you?" and she still didnt reply. and now im kinda worried cuz its the morning after now and no reply. i like her a ton. and i dont know what to do or say. could you guys please tell me what you think is going through her head and what i should say to her? thanks guys.
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| Lodewijkp | PostPosted: Mon Aug 01, 2011 12:44 pm | |
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Location: Netherlands | | text her that you aren't playing childish games .. you care about her but if she isn't going to text you .. fine... your not going to text her either.
by the way you didn't respond to her because you didn't want to deal with it ? .. at that point you stopped taking your part of responsibility for the relationship.
you were avoiding her emotions because of some inner game issue.... why ?
im going to get into the womans perspective...lol .. hoepfully i don't grow any tits.
she felt abandoned ( neglected ) because you didn't want to share a special moment with her - you refused her sharing her emotions to you.
she felt like she didn't had any relationship at all ...
by you saying ''you are mad '' you are again not understanding her and at the same time giving her the proof that she's right about it.
she isn't mad .. she's dissapointed ...
lets face it .. you want her to be mad .. you didn't respond to her .. you ignored her ... and now you pull the conclusion that she is mad ? dude .. you probably want her to get mad - you have a issue . _________________ AK-47...When you absolutely positively have to kill every fucking orc in the room
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| Dr. Spargenator | PostPosted: Mon Aug 01, 2011 12:49 pm | |
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