Hello, thanks in advance for opening this thread. Here's the problem:
Lately, I've been having arguments with my girlfriend about virtually EVERYTHING. We've been together for 15 months, and during that time there has been moments like this, were we'll be fighting all the time; good one moment, bad the next one, one would think that this goes away.
At the beginning, she had a friend tell her that I was using her, because we always saw each other at the time I said. We got over that
Then she felt lonely, because we didn't see each other enough (Despite being in school together from 8 am to 2 pm), she had to understand that my business was a very important part and I just couldn't take my eyes off it. We got through that.
Now she feels that we only see each other whenever I say so, that she is the one that has to adjust to my schedule. She asks stuff like "Why is it always the time you say, the day you say.. etc... "
This has been the discussion that has been present for the past 3 months, we never fully solve it, we solve it for a moment, but then she comes back again with it.
I tell her things like... "If you agree to that time then its not only my time" and Im no wizard to know when you want to.
Im stuck here, I don't know what to do, nothing pleases her. I've found out she gets hurt very easy with every small detail that me being a man don't notice.
We actually took a break the past month, to think about it, then we talked it and "solved" it, apparently not, Im preparing for the worst here, we can't keep having the same fight over and over and over.
How can I solve this?? I don't want to break up, I've tought about it, but no... I just wish I could solve this and just go back to how things were.
Thanks, and I appreciate your help!