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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 3:22 am 
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ended up breaking up with my girlfriend 'oneitis' she wants to remain friends, and not in a relationship because she isn't ready because she can't handle the stress and fights

I'm new to the area i'm living in, jumped into school and started dating this girl after a couple weeks of me starting there, she is hb9 easily, and one of the most popular girls in school, so pretty sure that takes out gaming any other girls, i had only been reading game for a couple months then used what i knew to get this girl, and since then i've been going downhill , Guess i'm to the point of starting to learn game all over again.

question is, how do i go about getting her back, what could i say, or do to try and remain fucking atleast? the sex with her was amazing, and we were pretty open to trying alot of new things, what do i do about social circles? considering i've only been in this area for about 6 months, and my friends, are also her friends. Where should i start learning game? I'm 18 and in australia so can go out clubbing ect, but there isn't any other 18 yr olds at school, or that i know that would go out.

Should i am to get her back, keep her as friends for social proof even if its bad on me, aim to keep the sex up, or fuck her off completely and get a better understanding of pu


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 2:35 pm 
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she isn't ready because she can't handle the stress and fights
This is girl-speak for "this relationship wasn't working for me." I hope that is obvious, at least. If you are the one who broke up with her, it wasn't working for you, either. So why bother trying to get it back?
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i had only been reading game for a couple months then used what i knew to get this girl, and since then i've been going downhill
This is fairly common. This is one reason why many older PUAs suggest not entering into a relationship with the first girl you pick up after learning game. IE you can be really, really good at picking up girls, but terrible at keeping a relationship going. They are separate skill sets, in some ways.
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Should i am to get her back, keep her as friends for social proof even if its bad on me, aim to keep the sex up, or fuck her off completely and get a better understanding of pu
Answer this question first.

Should I aim to get her back?--Why would you want to? (refer to above)
Keep her as friends?--You seem too emotionally attached to the outcome to be true friends with this girl. You'd end up as one of those chumps that hangs around based on the memory of sex, with nothing more than hope that it will happen again... which it won't.
or fuck her off completely and get a better understanding of pu--Hmm...

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 10:35 pm 
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This is girl-speak for "this relationship wasn't working for me." I hope that is obvious, at least. If you are the one who broke up with her, it wasn't working for you, either. So why bother trying to get it back?
Yeah, i never thought about it like this, but i've given up hope of us being in a relationship, so i'm not going to keep trying, we've been talking since we have broken up, and she wants to be 'best' friends, she wants sex to still happen, still telling each other i love you, ect
That pretty much would say theres the possibility of someone better in her life? and I would just be there to boost her self esteem, which she has very poor self esteem!

I've just been offered an amazing job, which is on an holiday island, with shit all population, so learning game over there would be hard, but working would be in a cafe/restaurant type place, maybe would that be a good time to get myself in control of everything, inner game, ect?
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or fuck her off completely and get a better understanding of pu--Hmm...
Really think this is the best option, i feel as if she is just using me for sex/someone to boost her low self esteem, she's a model and is with the biggest agency in australia, which should be boost enough to herself
anyway Cheers for the reply wal!


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 2:12 am 
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I think about it this way, and didnt, until I got into a situation. Basically what happened, is I quit my job, without finding another one, and I went a month without work, and it SUCKED!

So, how that ties into pickup is, if you dont want a relationship with her, but you can still get sex, and might not get sex anywhere else, then take just the sex, until you have it coming from someone else, then get rid of her. Thats just how I see it.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 7:48 am 
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I've decided to take this job offer I've been offered, full time job, accom/food everything paid for, the worst part is it's only got a population of 2000 if that, with English not being the main language

To have sex with my ex, would I have to try and seduce her again, she's made it clear she still wants to have sex but doesn't want to rush / plan it, I'm only here for another 2/3 weeks, only chance of face to face contact is school, but I told her that were spending time together next Sunday, what should I do when she comes around ?


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