ive had this problem more than once so i now consider it a sticking point. ill use my current new girlfriend as an example but it has happened in the past.

okay long story short, i met her on facebook (im an hypnotist type) and ended getting her to breakup with her bf whom shes dated for the last 2 years. this happened over a period of 6 months. I was dating other women in that time period. And now we are finally together and the only thing she feels comfortable with is hugging. Fuck that. I told her that its natural to feel a little discomfort because we havent seen each other in person a whole lot. and i continued to escalate kissing, touching breasts. at this point she says shes now comfortable with kissing. because i did it alot. now im wanting to move into sex. How do i do that? its been a problem before for me.

I want her to feel comfortable and want it. i dont want to be the guy to push her into things that she doesnt want to do. shes also told me she doesnt feel comfortable with her body and doesnt feel comfortable naked with another person. she said it had nothing to do with me. (but we know how often that can be a lie.)

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for those who believe no explanation is necessary...for those who do not, none will suffice.

get her sexually attracted to you dont text her or chat with her on facebook as much anymore dont be available to her everytime she asks to hang out. have you ever read 60 years of challenge? if not read that which will help you a lot ill try to edit this later and put a link in it but also watch gamblers stealth attraction video and that is perfect for you. for example when you talk to her anytime you want to create sexual attraction pause and talk real slowly until you get the air feeling tense and it will create sexual tension between you two get close to her and whisper in her ear or something like that read and watch what ive said its great for your situation

stealth attraction link: stealth-attraction-entire-disk-2-vt60864.html

60 years of challenge link: 60-years-of-challenge-vt74099.html

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Okay here's what I did with my GF. If you need to know how to escalate I agree that you should read 60 years of challenge.

My Gf was always uncomfortable with anything beyond touching breasts... What I did is that I always escalated to where she was comfortable, and the pushed the boundries a little further(1st time is always the excuse for the 2nd time) I never pushed her into anything just expanded her boundries. Obviously you have to get her aroused first...

What I figure is that your girl maybe just wants security since she was in a relationship for 2 years she got used to her BF and knew that he would be there so it will take a while for her to completely trust you.