she's being insecure.. so if you fail a shit test and your value gets lowered in the relationship chances are high she will try to lead the relationship. once a insecure person leads the relationship it's over ... you won't be happy.

don't fail shit tests
don't agree with second rate behaviour
don't agree with insecurity

set some boundaries about what you like and what you want , know where you are going. if you have the feeling she's being insecure you need to adress it otherwise she will try to lower your internal value so she can take the lead and talk about her problems.

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AK-47...When you absolutely positively have to kill every fucking orc in the room
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Well said.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Umm....what? I'm guessing you're not in a serious relationship, otherwise that's pretty fucked up...especially if you're doing it behind her back.

oh man, my first gf did this, AND she set me up. she had a plan with her "superhot" friend to try to seduce me at a party.

things went awry and i ended up fucking her in her cutlass calais, best sex of my life.

oh my god, just thinking about that chick's ass. best ass on earth. sorry, i digress.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

PUA is meant to help you get women you want. You got the woman you want. You are satisfied with her, no? If you want the relationship to be stronger, don't do another girl. But if you want to screw someone else go for it. I advise you not to. You may feel guilty, it would be best not to mess it up.

It isn't committed or anything, but it's a fairly...deep...relationship. It's not what most people do, so lots of people think that being polyamorous is messed up, but I make it clear with any girls I see from the start and believe it or not a lot of girls wish more men were open to that sort of thing. A lot of girls are already seeing several guys and they don't openly talk about it because they fear how they'll be treated, but letting them know I do it means that the "I have a bf" excuse doesn't apply in half the cases. Of course I tell them that if I find out that they aren't in an open relationship as well that I won't see them anymore, so they don't usually lie, but they will go and tell their bfs they want an open relationship.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye