I haven't kissed my girlfriend for a while. So I'm just curious, if I use it, no matter her response should I just kiss her anyway?
eg:
me: Do you want to kiss me?
her: yes - kiss her
her: maybe - kiss her
her: no - either say "well i didn't say you could, you just looked like you wanted to" or just kiss her anyway?

Um, if she is your GIRLFRIEND...you shouldn't have to ask or run gambit's...just tell her...Come her! Plant a kiss and leave it at that.

Gambit's are for those moments of tension where you want to kiss a girl you just met but there is a chance of rejection, that's why it's so open ended...KISS...yes...boom, Kiss...No...we'll I didn't say you could! So, tell me about...blah, blah, blah...

I remember one girl I was seeing saying to me, it was regarding kissing her...she was an amazing kisser too, anyways...the topic somehow came up and she commented "You would ask before kissing me"... I said in a calm manner, no cockiness at all..."If I get the urge to kiss you...Im going to kiss you...and perhaps do other things to you as well, in public with everyone watching...it's just that when Im around you...it's hard to contain myself and I just have to let you know how I feel, You know"?!

Her response..."Very nice...and you know...you never have to ask...It takes the excitement out of it"!

So...NO GAMBIT! Be a man and kiss her!

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Wtf is this? No comment.

EDIT: Alright, in all fairness I won't be jumping to conclusions that quickly.

To answer your question - there should be no gambit/routine when trying to kiss your own girlfriend . . . This shouldn't even be pointed out to you, that's how obvious it should be.

If you are in an exclusive relationship, you can just go ahead and kiss her (point out if there are any religious barriers or other hindrance of the kissing to occur, maybe I'm overlooking some things).

Nevertheless, it's up to you at this point . . . I'd say that you shouldn't use any gambit or routine since this is no pick up and kissing should be an obvious stage at this point.

There's a few things, but I'd rather not go into too much detail.

But the main thing is, all went well today. I found out what the problem was. I actually laughed when she told me. Just her and her little insecurities. But all's good now

I'm thinkin you my friend should go out and kiss a couple more girls before jumping into a relationship.

Getting experience in any kind of area of life shouldn't be rejected because of reasons like ^that. I say be supportive and let it take its course.