I'll try to keep this short.
For those who want more details, you can read my post on the on-going development that has been this relationship for the past 3 months of my life.
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For the others, i'll try to summarize it real quick:
In October 2010, I get in a bar, see this beautiful woman and tell my friend:"I want that girl".
I game her, discover that she recently just got into a relationship, that doesn't stop me, I go by the idea that unless she is married/has kids you can go ahead.
Not only does she tell me that she has a boyfriend, but she also tells me that 2 of her friends (one being her besty) like me.
That doesn't stop me.
After some long gaming, she finally tells me that she has feelings for me, I do the same, we make out, and bla bla bla.
Then, Jan 1, we spend the night for the first time together. After which more nights have been spent together, however, due to the fact that I am currently very very busy studying, we don't have time to see each other more than 2-3 times a week, however we speak on the phone everyday. If not, she will always initiate contact with a text or something like that. There isn't a day where I don't get news from her.
Recently, she discovered that one day, while I was completely pissed at her, I gamed a third friend of her's who apparently fancies me as well. Obviously, my bad.
Since then, I lost all the trust that I had put months to built (literally, this girl has confidence issues because of her last LTR, and I don't have the best rep in the small town we live in).
So now i'm trying to build it back.
She has told me for a fact that she will dump her boyfriend once his exams are over, and I truly believe that. However, I feel like recently she has been losing interest in me (though i'm probably over-reacting), and i'm leaving next week on vacation for 14 days.
So here is my question: How do I go from the status of Lover to Boyfriend, without looking like a wimp (to be honest, I don't have much experience in real LTR relationships, i'm more of a "enjoy your youth - one night stand" kind of guy). Furthermore, how can I keep things spicy and interesting while i'm gone on vacation (phone, SPAM, text will be my only possible tools...).
I already have planned a cool date the day before I leave to blow her mind and leave her begging for more.
What do you guys think? I'm really starting to develop feelings for this girl, sh*t I haven't ever felt, but I don't want to be to needy/loose my cool and blow it.
Furthermore, how can I win that confidence back and make her understand that what I tell her is true, because right now she told me "even if you tell me stuff, I won't be able to believe you".
Btw, if anyone knows the movie "Love me if you dare" with Marion Cottilard, that is exactly us.
CHAT