Hi guys

I've met this spanish chick about 6 weeks ago. We really have a good connection and quite good sex.

The major problem is: she's from Spain, I'll be working in Italy, and i do not want to engage in any kind of LDR.

The girl gives me a lot of space, just as i do with her.

But just because of my unwillingness to emotionally connect me thowards her i feel she's getting closer and closer to me (calling me "my little", talking quite a lot, also coming to visit me while i'm right now out of town for about 1 month).

I DO LIKE THAT. But I feel it's not what i fully want. On the other hand, she's really a girl who fits me quite well, which i've been searching for a long time (and i'm very picky with relationships in general).

I just don't know where to go with this girl. For now there isn't really a problem - we just enjoy the moments we have together and thats it. But in a couple of months she will be heading back to her country, and what then?

I'm quite afraid of her bringing up the serious talks about committing into a relationship, and honestly, i do not know how to handle it. For now i was able to ignore her talks when she did it once, but she will of course do it soon again.

Any advice is welcome.

Thanks a lot

For now, just focus on giving her the time of her life that she'll remember as long as she lives. Get exclusive with her, get out there and do some crazy, unusual things with her. The problem with you now is that you have a limiting mindset. You have a false fear of something happening which hasn't happened...yet. Just be free and go with the flow.

My grandpa always used to say, "Risk creates opportunity." If you don't have the courage to take risks in life, you are not a man, you're just trying to play living it safe. You are unaware of what you are truly capable of. I don't know but everyone focuses on reality and how it limits them. As for myself on the otherhand, I am a dreamer.

Man up...talk to her and see what happens. You never know, she might be feeling the same way, but if you don't talk about it, you'll never know.