Ever since my divorce 1.5 years ago I've been training to be a great PUA, to learn about me and overall enjoy single life. However, recently I have sort of stumbled on a relationship but as soon as I said I love you things have been going downhill. It could be because I am not used to dealing with a GF and possible becoming needy again and clingy. (I am also deployed and in a long distance relationship, where many Qs can be misinterpreted)

So anyways since this is near and dear to my heart and I have not really given it much thought, what characteristics would a perfect GF have??

Ok gents before you go off into an explosion of unrealistic characteristics to describe a perfect woman, think of things you expect a great girlfriend to have? And not a Unicorn

Things I can think off:

Carrying
Shows interest
Outgoing
Understanding
Happy
Stable

Someone overall who loves to spend time with me but at the same time has her own life. Someone who can sit down and listen to me and respond and not make it all about her. Someone who is realistic about a relationship and who will show legitimate interest in a relationship.

Yeah I know a lot of these things are somewhat vague, but I am the one that needs answers haha so mine may not be the best descriptions of a perfect GF.

Post Away!

An absolute MUST in a girlfriend?

I'll tell you!

THE SAME ZIP CODE.

Long distance relationships DO NOT WORK.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I hear ya. My first girlfriend (at age 14, she was 13) was just half hour bus away, and I got on that bus like five times for dates that failed because of logistics or got flaked in the last minute. I was so dumb. Kinda shows how much faith I had in that relationship that I didn't buy a season ticket

I don't have much standards for an ideal girlfriend, just important ones. She has to have a fun attitude and not afraid to be sexual. This two. More than enough.

I like a girl who is honest, and will tell you when something is wrong, not play games and make you guess.

Have you ever found one? Truly?

I hear there is a tribe of them living somewhere over the rainbow in a meadow full of unicorns and leprechauns!!!

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Hahahaha Mack 2.0 you are a dick, but yeah I think your honesty is also appreciated. Bottomline the games play are inbedded in their genes, it protects them and their off spring so the games we play back is to get on the same playing field. So no doubt, you cant always have the perfect girl but undoubtely there are ones that are better than others, and that was the point of my post to see what great girls have over the hood rats, copy? Ok Thanks!

Where are you deployed to or can you say? I just swore in as AD Army Infantry a few days ago, I ship to Benning in October.

For me personally:

1. Plays lots of video games (common interests)
2. Will cheat on me when I'm gone for months, but will be slick enough about it for me to never ever find out (just trying to make it honest)
3. Happy with her appearance, minimal inner game issues (I get so sick of women taking a turn to Negative Town constantly but every one of them I've gotten close to seems to do it so I can bust my ass keeping them stable)
4. Will take care of me when I get stupid drunk, and not bitch about it until after my hangover fades (I may be pushing it here, this one may not count)

A girl who knows what she is worth.

I can honestly say I have found one.

Unfortunately, she has so many other flaws that it just makes it so not worth it. Once I grow a pair I'll have to end my relationship.

yep. only games she plays with me are call of duty.