I'm in grade 12 . Anyways I dated this girl for about 2-3 months from school. The relationship was actually pretty decent ..no major problems , at no times did i act like a dick to her. One day I started to think about the fact that i'm graduating very soon and didn't see myself with her long term.We had no mutual friends and began to think i was missing out . Basically , the situation that i was in was not one I was completely happy about and wanted to get out of it to look for it. So i broke up with her after school one day in the most friendly way . I told her i would still be good friends with her , and that I just didnt want a relationship right now and began to see her differently .etc.
Immediately she stormed off basically crying , saying she hated me ,etc.

Ever since our communication has been mostly text , except for the one time I went out with her ( big mistake) ..anyways ever since she has been nice sometimes but sometimes she will go on big texting sprees and just completly blow up my phone with shit like : (this is all my from last night ) ..

" I hate you! get the fuck out my life you stupid idiot. I mean ever word and hope this hurts you like you hurt me . And dont expect a sorry. "

Your full of shit i deserve better than you you . alwats was too good for you "

" you deserved ever fowl thing you stupid prick"

I actually really hate you . I really fucking hate you . You ugly bastard"


finally i just texted her and lied and said there was a death in the family..just so she would stop and she hardly let up

p.s - I dont even respond to this texts. ill just be busy and all of a sudden check my phone and see 12 new messages and think fuck . I feel like there is no escaping this . Its really taking a toll on my confidence i just want to move on. I tried deleteing them without looking at them ..but they keep pouring in .
any advice guys? please help

Holy fuck, Dude!

You could be describing my life and exactly what I have been living through.

I broke up with a crazy ex, dude...she:

- called me over 100 times in one night, I unplugged the home phone (she left 29 voicemails, the maximum)

- called my cell phone nonstop for 48 hours, she left dozens of voicemails (all the type of shit you just said)

- even mailed me a piece of what can only be described as HATEMAIL (lol), a card telling me what a worthless bastard I am, etc, etc, etc,

- she stalked me online to all of the websites that I frequent, antagonized me.

I ended up changing my numbers, my emails, my IM's, everything. So, some time goes by (months) and finally I responded to her pleas for attention on a website as I knew they were directed toward me. I just wanted to talk "as friends" and have some sort of "decency" in the way things ended.

She acted all normal and sane. Time progressed, we spoke rather infrequently (not in any sort of romantic way, really) and we ended up exchanging emails, numbers, etc. It's like no sooner did I do that, then she went fucking nuts again!

Now, goddammit, she won't leave me alone. I feel like I have to change all my numbers again. Christ, I might have to move!!! Problem is, it's difficult explaining to your friends and family why you get new phone numbers every six weeks. lol

If she really is NUTS like that, you need to cut all contact, but before you do, change all your numbers, emails, close your facebook, stop posting on websites. DO NOT give her any opportunity to fuck you around or fuck you over. Cut. All. Contact.

Move ON

and oh yeah.....

DO NOT LOOK BACK (this is the most important part)

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