This may make a few people chuckle, or a few people giggle. Let me enlighten you before I get you're opinion this.

I had a girlfriend and we broke up and I was completely "heart broken"... My friend in another country (2 hour train ride from my home) was like, I have an amazing girl you can talk to, and he gave me her blackberry pin. She was in a relationship when she added me, but her boyfriend broke up with her. We talk quite a bit, and she is amazing, over texting she is one of the smartest brightest girls I know, then we SPAM, and it was fun, and just, I never really saw a girl and admired a girl in this way. Then she said she had to stop talking to me, because she could really like me, and she could fall for me, but she doesn't want to because it will never work, I live in another country I might be moving and all that. I spoke to her and she read my messages and didn't reply for like 2 weeks, then she replied, and she said she wants to talk to me but it can't be more.

Now after 2 weeks of fun talking, me booking a ticket to seeing my friend who gave me her pin (wanted to see her) she is acting weird and starting to pull away.

How do I act to this? I know its sad, but this girl is amazing cute, funny and smart. Do I ignore her, freeze her out, say something to her. She is the smartest girl I know and often or not plays me, she sticks to her word, if she says she wont talk to me, she wont. If i ignore her, she will be like, ahh typical and not talk to me

i regret to inform you that all women seem "amazing" in long distance relationships.

it's an illusion. like a fairy tale. you only get to see brief glimpses of the absolute "ideal" (best) version of these women. oftentimes they totally craft an entirely separate persona just for these interactions, and that person is NOTHING like who they actually are.

i've seen this more than one time.

LDR's are total bullshit, unless you know the person beforehand and have had to separate for some reason.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I will support Mack's post with a short story.

Several years ago, I met a girl at a family reunion. No, assholes, she's not part of my family. She was a friend of my cousin. So anyway, we hit it off quite nicely and we ended up exchanging numbers. Long story short, we somehow established this LDR without ever seeing each other again. It lasted a few months until both of our schedules died down enough to where we could see each other again.

When I finally got to see her, her nose was burned out from all the cocaine she had been snorting over the past several weeks. To make matters worse, she had gained about 30 lbs. How the fuck does that work? Who actually GAINS weight when they do that kind of shit? She also stunk.

Ok I agree and disagree with you guys, because I have spoken to her for now like 4 months, and i see her on SPAM, and my friends are friends with her and they tell me about her. And she is just smart and has everything going for her....

2 hours is nothing. should have gone to see her earlier

She spoke to me before saying she didnt want it because it will never work, and im trying to reverse the situation by her wanting to talk to me.

So i said ... Sure, you were right about everything you said before. Take care and have a good weekend

I dont know
this is something differnet