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I' d say your answer lies here. You were moving on and took her back because you felt sorry for her. Being in a relationship because you felt sorry for the person is not a healthy relationship as it is based on pity.

Since you'd like to sort it out (which few people seem to do these days) then you'll want to help her overcome her insecurities. Few females subscribe to male logic and hormones affect their rationality. You'll need to try and see things the way she sees things and then formulate your counter argument from that perspective.

How well do you know your neighbours? If you can be sure they have no interest in you and your LTR calms down about the "fucking your neighbours" thing, possibly introduce her to them, so she gets to know them and realizes that they are no threat to her. Be aware this has the potential to backfire, but could really put her mind at ease.

I saw that you mentioned she knew you very well, do you know her just as well?

*edit*
just saw it was resolved. hope it worked out the best for you

@Tiger6niner-Lol thanks for the rough insight.

I pretty much agree with you.

But as I stated abover,this issue has been resolved on it own.

She just happened to stop bitching about it.

Seems like it was her testing me.

I somehow passed,and she dropped the issue out of the blue.

That was a classic exmple of a girl testing her bf's congruency,etc.

But I totally agree with you Tiger6niner about introducing her to then(neighbours):eventhough that would be some-what of a rationality move(which women dont do well with).

You did mention it had the potential to backfire.

But overall,it seems like her hormones were driving this jealousy(could be mid-life crisis-she just turned 41).

Im 29,so the fact that I lived next to 3 hot- younger girls made her mighty insecure(I guess).

Anyway Tiger6niner,appreciate the insight;you know your stuff.

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