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Mack 2.0
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Fictional you are entering a dangerous ground believe me you think you have control but you dont, you are mad and things arent clear. What is happening to you it reminds alot of my story too. When my ex G/F told me that she moved on after just 2 months apart that what she felt wasnt all that stronger, it really fucked my head, she told me I was specia diferent for the others l we made plans and was really the girl at this point who made me fall in love, and was the one I considered to try to have serious relantioship which I didnt never would spend much time with a girl..

I did what you are doing I dive in PUA JUST FOR HER tried almost everthing it gave me my confidence changed my life, so I showed her I was a big shark in small pound, came with a plan to fuck her would make her fall in love with me and then kick her ass on the next curve Yeah I was having a really bad time.t I failed you wanna know why? It took me 3 weeks for her to be CRAWLING AT Y FEET, and then I seize the opportunity and fucked her. That night was probably one of the worst nights when i saw her in my arms completly helpless it reminds me how much I loved her. So instead of me grabbing my clothes and leaving I stayed. The fucking pain I had was gone after a short while I saw she loved me told me she wasnt expecting this that its rare for her to turn on a decision and this reverted to my Afc days and all my plans went to the trash, the girl i loved was with me once again you cant believe the hapiness I was feeling in the end I WAS THE ONE AT HER FEET. Be carefull bro srls, it was one of the hardest lesson that life gaved me

Instead of you pushing her away i think you are pulling at least that whats happened to me.
carlos,

that is a deep story, man. i also agree that fictional is in dangerous territory.

when my ex did me wrong, i was consumed with rage for a long time and i made all sorts of nefarious plans for ruining her life. finally (and fortunately) i was able to work through my own anger and pain and learn to live my life without her. as men, it is hard to feel as though someone has gotten the best of us and hurt us. it feels like being punched and then not punching back. this is very unnatural for men. we are trained from a very young age, if someone hits you, you hit them back. actually the lesson my dad always taught me was "if someone hits you, you hit them twice as hard and twice as many times". that really stuck in my head. "hits" can be emotional too... not just physical.

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OK i get what you guys are saying seriously i do. But i am one of those people who need to experience things for myself. But lets forget about her. Can anyone help with the other girl.

Serious trust/comfort issues. Lost the guy she loved for 2 years recently. I was a total bitch about her cos she scared the hell out of me. Can i change her impression of me or is that fucked also?
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just so u have a little bit of a back ground on my mentality.
17 joined the Royal Marines.
18 Completed Officers Training.
19 Was in charge of a Scout Recon group.

I have done 1 tour of afganistan. But was forced to leave to leave due to injury. In the armed force they brake you down, teach you not to lose make you a fighter to your core. Im only 22 now and im still very much a soldier in my head and heart. I cant back away from a fight, i have never been taught to lose. And i cant now. Im not overly angry at the situation, he was in there i wasnt. That is life. But i still need to have the last word and then i will walk away.

But as i said in the previous message. Fuck her for now. This other girl that i was a total AFC around is there a way to get past that impression?
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Fictional...

I'm new here, but as a US Marine myself, I'll tell you this...you want to "win the fight" and "ruin" chick #1, walk away from both. My ex wife and mother of my kids, messed me over much like what happened to Mack. i walked, never looked back, took the kids and "won". 6 years later, she stills want to "come back and have a family, cause she's realized what she wants"...PISS on that and piss on her. Walk away bro, that'll mess with their heads more than anything you're doing now.
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Hoorah, but im british marines. Although enough respect to the USMC. Worked with your Scout Snipers, some of the craziest motherfuckers i ever met.

Yea i can see that but all i have that she might want is our dog. Kids bring a whole new side to the equation. I dont want her back, it is done. But i have a plan, and i plan on seeing it through. I will walk when it is done.

I really really need help with this other chick tho. Are first impression that important or is salvagable.
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I will give you answers on both....

Girl 1 = Let her see you happy. That's be the best "revenge" you can get. Trust me, I too thought of plans and ways to "get back at" or "destroy" exes, but just move on bro. Is she really worth your energy anymore? If you're doing all of this and she feels or sees you pining over her, she has control. Don't give it to her. Sorry to say, but Fuck her...she isn't worth it.

Girl 2 = you say that you weren't in your confident state. I'm sure she knew that. You told what just happened. She wanted to "comfort you"..She too just got out of a 2 year relationship, she know the deal. Get your head straight, lace up your boots and just do you. She'll see that next time and you'll get what you want. You know, as well as I and everyone else in here, ALL men can exhibit "AFC" traits, we all do it, it comes down to her giving you respect and not taking your kindness for weakness.

i say this cause my GF now, 10 months, I at times exhibit "AFC" behavior, but shit do I care..nope. I'll do something nice for her and she'll say "You're the best boyfriend" and I'll reply "Sure am, don't take it for granted cause it can all go away"...Just be yourself man, you know you better than I do or anyone else here and you have everything you need already, just push through the bullshit chick 1 did and STOP worrying about it...you'll be fine
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thanks man seriously it is good advice. Aprreciate it, i truely do
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i've plotted some twisted shit

to this day, the thoughts still cross my mind

i just have to hope and pray she will get hers in the end

or

that one day i'll pass her stranded on a desert highway, beep, and wave

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Lol. Amen to that
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