me and my girlfriend have been dating for a couple weeks now, and slowly building up on the sexual side, she's told me she hasn't had an orgasm for about 6 months during intercourse and she thinks its because she focus's on the other person too much. She had been telling her friends and they all thought she was stupid for staying with her ex at the time.

during my last few sexual partners i've gone back to premature ejaculating (around 1 minute) and i'm worried i wont be able to last long enough to make her enjoy it whats the best thing i could do here? My oral skills are amazing so i've been told but she is too concious of her body to let a guy go down on her.

then do it sneaky, and for advise if you don't think about busting your load you'll last longer. that or jack off first, and given a woman a real orgasm is hard for most guys. most woman well call busting a nut a orgasm but if you can make her body start shaken you may have completed your goal.

my best advise is look up sex books.
ps cinnamon like the spice keeps you from busting quick

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how would you use cinnamon to stop you from cumming fast? sticking it were?ha

you eat it their different spices and fruit that can help you research also spray and creams

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I'll have to look that one up never heard of anything like that haha

Get David Shade's "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms."

Get her to RELAX and be really comfortable with you, and get her to allow you to please her orally. You can help by telling her how beautiful she looks to you, and how you can't wait to taste her and how much pleasure that would give you. DON'T say that the goal is to make her orgasm, otherwise she'll get too in her head again. Just say she should relax and just close her eyes and experience the waves of pleasure over her.

If you can get her to orgasm clitorally first, then you'll want to stimulate the g-spot and/or deep spots to get her to orgasm vaginally. This will take the pressure off you and make it more likely that you can make her orgasm during penetration. The best positions to stimulate her g-spot during penetration are - her on top and leaning back, doggy with you above going in downwards, and missionary but with a pillow under her, and you upright thrusting upwards.

To increase your stamina, work on kegel exercises, as well as visualising your arousal level in order to control it. Basically, you want to imagine your arousal on a scale from 0 (completely flaccid, sitting around reading the newspaper) to 10 (ejaculating no matter what). You want to stay around 7, and feel what that's like, and work on building to a pace where you can just keep at that 7 level. If you feel yourself veering towards 8 or 9, just slow down or stop, and then continue by going slowly at first, and then just building up to a comfortable pace.

One sneaky little trick I've noticed, is that sometimes they'll be getting really into it, and I'll say "you want me to fuck you HARDER" and they'll usually agree or say "yeah fuck me harder!" and I'll actually SLOW DOWN the pace, but just slam into them harder. They are being lead to believe that things are getting more intense, but actually I'm slowing down my rhythm so I can keep going longer. Cunning eh?

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Anticipation is one hell of an aphrodisiac bro, learn to use it and you will be very surprised at how easy it is to give a girl an orgasm. I use it all the time and it works wonders.

I get into a girls head and tease her ALL DAY. I tell them how I'm going to tie them up and spank them for being naughty. I describe the type of paddle I have and the sounds it will make against her skin, etc. I talk about the handcuffs I have and the positions i will place her in. Women love to feel helpless and get turned on when they relinquish control in bed. I use this to my FULL advantage by assuming the 'daddy' role.

Now, keep in mind, this may or may not be your girl's ultimate fantasy (which I doubt). If it's not, find out what it is and play up to it. Maybe she loves the thrill of doing something in public and almost getting caught. If that's the case, tell her to send you a picture of her tits while she is at the mall or something. The excitement will definitely turn her on.

There are endless ways to turn on a girl mentally bro, you just have to figure out what works for YOUR girl. But as I mentioned above, don't wait...start early in the day. By the time you see her, she will be ready to go. Just be sure to keep up with the 'role playing'.

If you want to continue with the anticipation right before sex, blind fold her, this will drive her nuts. Not knowing if you are going to be gentle, or spank her, or what part of her body you will touch next will drive her crazy. And whatever you do, do not neglect her nipples. Nipples are a VERY sensitive body part. I almost made a girl orgasm by playing with her nipples.

Note: Sex isn't physical bro, it's between the ears!

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Cheers ryan i'll get right onto getting that book! I'll take those tips and use them next time i get the chance but yeah i've said that how much i'd love to taste her and how much it would please me she just didn't really like the idea But past day or two she has been getting more into it so thats a good sign!
that is a sneaky little tip! never thought of that, definatly will think of that one!

yeah sinful i've been doing alot of that i must say but not as well as how you explained it! and that is her ultimate fantasy! so those tips will go extremely well, i'll get onto those straight after i finish this post!

One thing that has been a big help to me is putting her ontop, and moving her forward and back rather than in and out. This seems to really get women going,.. but it does almost nothing for me - so when I'm getting a little too close I just change to that position until I'm ready to go for a bit again.

Changing positions generally is great too - women love it,.. gives them variety, and guys get a bit of a break while your changing it up. Some of the more creative places I've thought of, have simply been because I needed a little more time to "Calm down".

Learn to use your fingers,

Both David Shade and Steve P (White Tiger Tantra) have got good material on that.
"Learn female anatomy".- D. Shade

I 100% agree on the post in which you say to the girl you will fuck her harder but slow your own pace down, thats a winner right their

hi, first post here.

Question about this ^^^

I have been seeing a girl for 3 weeks now. As in, I met her 3 weeks ago, played it by the book, and banged her for the first time on Saturday.

It was good sex, but first time etc. Im sure it wil get much better. But my question is, when should I start by doing what you outlined above? Should I already be texting her dirtytalk to get her turned on?

So far we have a very simple relationship. She is real busy and so am I. She is EXTREMELY non needy, like doesnt text or call. Only texts to meet up or make plans. But when we ar together its amazing.

This could be that 1) shes just like that or 2) shes not fully comfortable yet

Either way, Im just continuing what ive been doing so far, and I wont change it. But id like to know if I should start trying to turn her on or wat exactly to do after sex has happened.

Thanks