I'm in quite a tricky situation at the moment and I'm interested in what you guys think I should do. I've been seeing two girls for a couple of weeks now, unfortunately, both these girls know, and hate each other. Throughout seeing them both I maintained that it wasn't really that serious, despite generally acting like a couple of both of them.

HB7 rang me up and asked me out on the phone on Friday, I declined and said that I like how things are at the moment, and I don't really like labeling things, she seemed okay with this.

On Sunday, I was spending the day with HB8.5 and had a fantastic time, I really like this girl, she has the qualities that I look for in a girl, a strong head, intelligent, funny, etc.. and I knew from previous days that shes really into me and would like to enter a commited relationship with me, and because I started to feel the same I asked her out.

I then told HB7 that we could no longer see each other because I'd asked HB8.5 out, and she got jealous and started telling my girlfriend that I kissed her this afternoon, my girlfriend, fortunately, didn't really believe her, though I know for certain that HB7 is not going to let this drop, and because I generally hang out in the same social circle as her sometimes, when I'm out with my girlfriend chances are shes going to try and start trouble by saying that i've cheated on my girlfriend with her.

How would you guys handle this situation?

don't handle

as long as hb8.5 is okay and is attracted to you and your relationship is health....then there's no problem

Sounds like you have a good girl, I think you'll be fine, and won't have too worry about the jealous female

blackmale

you need dirt on HB7

then say "bitch i will destroy you"

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Thanks guys.

Haha Mack, I did think about it, but everyone knows that shes quite a slutty girl, so unfortunately theres very little i'd be able to blackmail her with.

I've threatened more than one woman with the fact that they may get pulled over for a broken tail light, only to have to police officer discover a giant bag full of smaller bags of coke in the dash.

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Amazing! We did bump into her earlier on and she didn't say anything, she actually walked away and avoided us, so happy days.

Just another quick question, it'll save creating a new thread. How much seeing her is too much? If she stays the night and then spends the next day with me, would it be too much to go around and see her the day after? Or should I limit our meetings to just a couple of times a week, so that she has time to miss me?

Sorry. I was being a dipshit. It won't happen again.

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