So now I'm in a relationship with a HB8.5/9 and she told me she was into be because I wasn't kissing her ass like all the other guys (not in those exact words but that's what she meant).

Now she Is saying I don't treat her like a girlfriend and she gets annoyed that I don't text her all the time but I got her by not texting her first and she has to text me all the time. I have a feeling that what I was doing before obviously worked so If I start texting her all the time she will lose interest and I'll become her whipping boy lol. Not going to happen.

She says it doesn't upset her but it annoys her, but she is all teary eyed and shit when she tells me this and her voice tone and body language changes, I can tell she is genuinely upset. She tries to start mini arguments about it but I tell her its not her its just how I am and that's not going to change any-time soon.

Is this the right way to deal with it? I don't want to upset her but I'm not going to shoot myself in the foot and stop doing what I know was working.

I tell her she is beautiful when we get intimate but other than that I tease the hell out of her. Am I meant to completely change how I act just because we are in a relationship? Do I find a balance or what? How do you guys deal with these things?

Thanks in advance

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