i dont know how to handle dating a Milf,she has a 2 year old son whos cute.shes single and never married cause she dump the guy when he cheated on her when she was pregnant.shes 23.

i knew her for a couple of years now,so how should i act?i mean she has a son to take care so what is the main points to remember when handling a mother?
she used to be a party girl back in her days(before having a son) now shes not so wild anymore although i know sometimes she wants to release steam and have fun.

we did kiss but have not yet to have sex cause i cant just bring her home late at nite cause of her son but she does plan to go to my house to cook for me so it will happen then.i heard she likes guys who controls her but i havent really done that cause i m not sure how to really proceed with dating a single mother,cause i dont wanna go over the limit if theres is any..so any help?

shes also really hot ,so any tips or advice?

if you have to ask this question, chances are that you are out of your league dealing with her.

well,i need a better advice then that

ok, i was busting your balls, but only slightly

if you are dating a mother and you want it to be successful,

you have to:

- be a man, not a child in any way

- like kids

mothers dont look at guys like non mothers they see how can be a good father to theres so if you cant hold that up you loss

haha,well i do get those 2 part,i think its my fault for not being more detail, i mean im sure i cant game her like normal single girls since she has a commitment involved,im just curious should i be a bit extra sweet since she has a kid or should i just game her like other girl?

cause with normal single girl call them and say"hey,im planning to catch a movie at 9 pm,get ready now,cause ur the lucky victim today,i will reach your place in 10 mins...and please do wear something easily slip off" most girl would just call me naughty or laugh when do that to them but it a a mother that technique wont work cause she might have no one to babysit or she has not yet prepared the childs meal and all...
so im asking in that kind of way should i be dominant etc etc or what?i hope this help you guys in helping me....

i still tease her,bust her ball,make fun of her but in a fun way where she end up hitting me or smilling or laughing but when she brought up things bout her son i like compliment her son thats hes cute or funny or a cool kid to hang out with...am i doing it right?

mothers dont look at guys like non mothers they see how can be a good father to theres so if you cant hold that up you loss

my two points are the key.

don't treat her any differently than any other girl. because she is no different.

what i am saying is she will want a mature "man", not a boy.

be yourself, if you are a "man", if you are an immature "boy" who does immature "boy" things, you will have a difficult time with this one.

because, yes, even if she is keeping it casual, still in the back of her mind she is subconsciously shopping for a father for that baby.

like i said: game as usual, however, GENUINELY like kids act very appropriately around her child.

actually this brings up another point, are you spending time with her around her child or out on dates where the child is not present?

well i have met her kid once,and he was surprisingly friendly with me,heck she was even suprised her kid tried to kiss me(i thought he wanted a hug),and from that sometimes when we talk she likes to tell me things bout her kid which i like to listen cause seriously the kid is funny n playful.

well i know mothers prefer a reliable man rather than a bad boy etc but im asking this is cause shes only 23 this year..which is still quite young but she is quite matured and independent,she doesnt complaint bout herself like all those girls who goes mememememe which i find refreshing...

well since that day she likes to bring her kid if i met her during daytime,unless shes lazy cause her kid is kind of naughty,but i can spendtime with her and her kid but during weekends only cause im working on weekdays and at nite we just hangout together without the kid.

ok, insignia, i can give you some advice. i'm in my 30s and have kids. i've been in that position.

you are dating her and not her child. so until you guys are a serious item you should not be macking on mommy around the kid.

your time with her should just be the two of you on dates, getting to know one another.

even from a court of law's opinion (when custody is established) they strongly advise parents not to bring "boyfriends" and "girlfriends" around their children, because those children will instantly see that person as a parent and when things inevitably don't work out, you will be yet another MAN who walked out on that child in its eyes. trust me.

it's ok to love kids. it's ok for her to talk about her kid. actually a good mommy is a very attractive trait as instinctively all of us want a woman who would be a good mother to our offspring.

but you are dating her and not her child.

so as long as you play your cards right, and show a genuine respect for her, her time, and for the fact that she is a parent, and seem "at least as" mature as she is, you will be fine.

that last part is important. no mother wants to date a man who is less mature than she is, i mean mentally.

unless of course she is like 40 and a cougar, then all bets are off.

go forward and slay that pussy! wrap it, she's obviously fertile.