My parents told her parents that were were leaving the country. She went to her grandmoms to forget about me. Then when she got back, i went 3 days straight to her house to help her pass her exams. Day of the exam she didnt pass, we got back to my house. i asked her what was wrong, that she was weird. She said she didnt know if she loved me anymore and and told me that she went there to forget me ebcause she didnt want to kill my dreams. i told her i was staying in the country and she said she didnt know if she loved me anymore so i looked up thinking im gonna go fuck other women. She began to caress me, and later outside said she was sorry.
I then took her home and she kissed me, said she loved me. next she called me, i asked her what time shed finish eating and cleaning to come home. She said like at 5 or later, i worked at 6. So i went at like 4.30, i said id go at 4. When i got there i called her, she said wait a lil, ill be down stairs, so i went outside. I said cant u harry up, she didnt kiss me or anything, when she finished we got home. and she was weird again. so that day when we got home, my keys broke and after i fixed it, i took her home and bikes tire got flat. That night, she didnt ring me, neither did i. Next day she called me in the morning. i said tell me when u finish eating and cleaning, roday is my day to be there. She said ok, i will. She knows i work at 6, she ringed me at 6.03pm. i called her at 7, talked to her for a minute since i was working and said goobye, working... Then at night i didnt call her, neither did she, yesterday she didnt call me, neither did i but i saw her at the college sign up, she is 18, im 19. She kissed me in the lips, it was okay. at about 7pm she calls me saying she knows what i did and that i am a son of a bitch and what she doesnt want to talk to me anymore and bye, as soon as she said that i hang up. So now im thinking what to do. Since on saturday i made up with a girl at the beach, her bro saw em at the pub and maybe with the blond at the beach. i dont know what to do, after that i didnt call her, neither go to her house. By the way, the day she failed the test, we said wed give ourselves a chance to be together until friday and see how it went. what do yu suggest?

I'm going to her house screw it.

What? I'm confused, so did you cheat on her?
I honestly don't understand what you're talking about...

Yes, i did cheat.

Leave the girl alone. You don't cheat on your GF.

Not today, not tomorrow, never.

I'm thinking about texting her tomorrow to apologize and wait until she is back from her grandmoms? It went horrible, i went to her house and it was awful... Im thinking about texting her something like im a human being, with lots of faults and i made a mistake. i sincerely apologize...
what do you guys think? please help... i know i shouldnt have cheat, but during the 8 months i never did until she got histerical at me and said she didnt know if she loved me crap...

dude give her space, goign over to her house was probably the worst thing you could do.

just chill for a few days withought contacting her and then give her a ring asking hows she been and take it from there.

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Seize the day

No excuses for cheating, would you really want to deal with her if she cheated on you, give her some time and space, and maybe she'll take you back

Talked to her mother today, she understood and is on my side. Her grandmom likes me, we'll see. I didnt text her... im thinking about texting her and being real. then leaving her until the 20th... shes back home the 19th.

You shouldn't text her.

Leave her alone.

You cheated.

Look...you feel guilty...your human. But the fact that you cheated, there is NO justification for it...NONE! Put yourself in her place...it's not easy to accept.

Would you accept it from her? Listen alezopeda...It was just the tip...and I only touched it with this hand!

C'mon...regardless, you would not like it...you know that! Not trying to make fun here...but it's a hurt that I am going to assume you have never been put through...if you have...then sympathize with her and leave her alone for abit...if you haven't...wait till it does...it feels like shit depending on how in love you are...Love is not something you toy with if you were in a relationship...you took it for granted!

My advice...as others here...give her time...she isn't going anywhere, I don't see her lining up the guys to have a bang off. She's hurt. Getting others from her family on your side isn't helping you any, it's going to make it worse because then she will really feel like she needs to push away from you, you are trying to gain all control here of her, her family and what she feels!

If you have a chance....and it will be an uphill one...You need to give her time.

Sidenote: Mark my words....YOU WILL NEVER HEAR THE END OF THIS AND WHAT YOU DID...EVER...TRUST ME.


Why do I feel that all of this will fall on deaf ears?

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

Ok guys, so im back with her. Got back with her a few weeks ago. She had never stayed at my house, and now she is. Its all better than before somehow.

When she left to her grandmoms who is like her real mother, she cursed at me the day before and said she didnt want to see me. I texted her that night saying it was a mistake and that as a human being i messed up. Next day at night, night before valentines i sent her an email and at the end a little poem, like 3 phrases. She responded to my message and said she apologized me but didnt know if itd be good if we came back again. I didnt send her another text since i knew shed be back with me. I also know she tried to hurt me saying we wouldnt come back, so i could pay for what i did. ON valentines, at 12:00 i sent her a message while i was working saying something like even if ur not here u are, in my head. She woke up and called me saying she had dreamed that i called her. we talked for the first time, like voice talk with texts,i apologized and she said she loved me. then we were fine until the day before she came back. We talked and she said she didnt know if she should come back with me. I said, ok, thank about it, we talk tomorrow. Next day i went we hugged and it was all good. And now its been better than before. Sex is much better and much more trust, its crazy :S...

its kinda done you messed up your relationship because itll be hard for her to trust you again