I'm 'talking' to a couple other girls besides the one im going to be dating very soon. one of them posts on my fb a lot and i just told my girl that she's obsessive and stuff, so i hopefully covered myself there. led to a small argument tonight, actually.


Anyways, I don't wanna cheat on this girl but i do wanna save these other girls for later if things go bad in the next month. how can i break it off with the other 2 without killing further chances?

Im confused.

If I were you,I'd try laying the other girls now,rather than waiting until you're more serious with your gf to be.

Im in an LTR,so I can feel where you're coming from.

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It's about choice...and you have one to make.

You can't go into dating someone and try to have a safety net below...if you plan for failure, you already set the foundation for just that.

Agreed, if you want these girls...bang them now and at least you had that experience to move on. Trying to keep them on the back burner for a romp later just may not work but hell, if you GOT game...more power to you...let us know how you did it!

@Cedius-Lol,basically agreed here.

Hey Cedius,hot girl you have in that pic'.

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If you need or want a "safety net," you are not ready for a monogamous relationship.

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You will always find girls to game when you need to game.

Make sure you get rid of the other girls soon enough before they cause you problems into your relationship with the one you want.

Sometimes the ones that get rejected might try to seek revenge and it is a shame they damage your relationship.

On the other hand if there was attraction with the other girls, if things go wrong you will be able to get back with them.

However, what you just said shows a very insecure person.

What if you stay for a while without a girl? Is it the end of the world?...

Good point
Great point...keep in mind...abundance.

@ K-loc...Thank you kindly sir.

I would just tell the other girls that you can't continue doing that, you meet someone that you really like and you want to get serious with her. You can be smooth and make them understand that. If you are ready for a long term relationship and you feel she's a good one, you shouldn't even think about having a safety net.

If things turn bad, you'll find someone else, it's possible that the other girls would want you even more because you rejected them.

Think about why you didn't go into an exclusive relationship with the others ? Why do you want the actual one ?

Don't keep them on the side, as Maria said, it could backfire on you pretty bad by playing a double game.